Send a Voice Note on Your Walk
Thirty-two easy ways to send a voice note on your walk, a lovely way to share your day with friends who are far away.
Your voice carries your day. Walk and talk to a friend.
28 tips that really help
These ideas come from The Good Life (Robert Waldinger and Marc Schulz), Friends (Robin Dunbar), Platonic (Marisa Franco), and everyday practice. Pick one tip and try it today.
Walking and talking works
Fresh air and movement lift mood, and a voice note lets a friend hear it. It feels like a shared walk.
Try it.
Pick a nice walk
A park, street or beach adds charm. Choose somewhere pleasant.
Choose.
Plan two points
Know a greeting, one story and one question. Plan lightly.
Plan.
Start warmly
Say, hi, it is Sam, I am on my walk. A smile shows in your voice.
Smile.
Describe what you see
Say, the trees are golden here. Descriptions make them feel present.
Describe.
Share a short story
A funny or sweet moment from your day. Keep it under two minutes.
Tell it.
Ask a question
Ask, how is your day going? Invite a reply.
Ask.
Speak slowly
Walking can make you rush. Breathe and slow down.
Slow down.
Mind the noise
Wind and traffic can drown your voice. Hold the phone close.
Check sound.
End kindly
Say, talk soon, bye. Warm and simple.
Close.
Listen to their reply on your next walk
Make it a back-and-forth. Walking together across distance.
Reply.
Make it a ritual
A weekly walking voice note with a friend builds rhythm. Rituals last.
Create one.
Script: starting
Hi, it is Sam, I am out on my walk and thought of you. Say it warmly.
Use it.
Script: describing
The leaves are all golden here and it is so lovely. Say it brightly.
Use it.
Script: asking
How is your day going so far? Say it with interest.
Use it.
Script: story
Let me tell you the funny thing that happened this morning. Say it cheerfully.
Use it.
Script: closing
Talk soon, enjoy your day! Say it sincerely.
Use it.
Mistake: walking in a noisy place
Noise spoils clarity, so choose quieter spots.
Choose well.
Mistake: rambling for ten minutes
Long notes are hard to play, so keep it short.
Trim.
Mistake: sharing private info in public
Others may hear, so keep it light.
Be discreet.
Troubleshoot: when you feel shy about your voice
Practise by recording to yourself. Most friends love hearing you.
Practise.
Troubleshoot: when you stumble
A small laugh and carry on. Real voices are charming.
Relax.
Troubleshoot: when they never reply by voice
Switch to text or video. Use what they enjoy.
Adapt.
Troubleshoot: when time zones differ
Voice notes suit that perfectly. Send when you can.
Use it.
Troubleshoot: when English is not your first language
Speak slowly with simple sentences. Warmth matters more.
Be clear.
Drill: send one on your next walk
Send one voice note on your next walk. Keep it under one minute.
Try.
Drill: plan a weekly walking note
Pick a friend and a day for a weekly walking voice note. Start.
Plan.
Drill: practise your three points
Practise greeting, story and question before recording. Use it.
Practise.
Easy things to say
When you are stuck, pick one of these. They work in many everyday friendships.
“Hi, I am on my walk.”
“Look at the sunshine here.”
“How is your day going?”
“Let me tell you about my morning.”
“Thanks for listening.”
“Talk soon.”
Your first week
One small action a day. Each day is only a little bigger than the last.
Walk somewhere nice
Record a short note
Describe what you see
Share one thing
Ask a question
Send
Listen to their reply
Further reading
- The Good Life (Robert Waldinger and Marc Schulz)
- Friends (Robin Dunbar)
- Platonic (Marisa Franco)
The tips above are written in our own words and are general guidance. The books are suggestions for further reading.
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