Send a Photo or Link You Talked About
Thirty-two easy ways to send a photo or link you talked about, a tiny gift that keeps the chat going.
Keeping a small promise builds trust. Share something useful.
25 tips that really help
These ideas come from Never Eat Alone (Keith Ferrazzi), Platonic (Marisa Franco), How to Win Friends and Influence People (Dale Carnegie), and everyday practice. Pick one tip and try it today.
Small gifts matter
A photo or link shows you listened and care. It also gives them a reason to reply.
Send one.
Remember what you promised
If you said you would send something, do it. Promises kept build trust.
Keep it.
Find the right item
Pick a clear photo or a useful link. Check that it works.
Check it.
Add a short note
Say, here is the photo from the other day. Keep it friendly.
Add one line.
Send it soon
Within a day or two is best. Do not let it drift.
Send soon.
Ask a question
Ask, what do you think? It invites a reply.
Ask.
Share what fits them
Choose things that match their interests. Personal beats generic.
Think of them.
Do not spam
One link at a time. Too many feel heavy.
Keep it light.
Share group photos kindly
Ask before sharing others in public. Respect privacy.
Ask first.
Credit the source
If you share an article, name it. Be honest.
Credit.
Share a laugh
A funny picture or meme can warm the mood. Keep it kind.
Be kind.
Follow with a plan
After sharing, suggest meeting if the vibe is good. Light.
Offer.
Script: photo
Here is the photo from the other day, it came out well. Say it warmly.
Use it.
Script: link
This is the article I mentioned, I hope you enjoy it. Say it kindly.
Use it.
Script: thought of you
I saw this and thought of you. Say it sincerely.
Use it.
Script: asking
What do you think of it? Say it with interest.
Use it.
Script: closing
Hope it helps, and thanks for the idea. Say it lightly.
Use it.
Troubleshoot: when the link is broken
Fix it and resend with a short apology. Small thing.
Resend.
Troubleshoot: when you cannot find the photo
Say you will look and send when found. Then do it.
Be honest.
Troubleshoot: when they do not reply
Do not worry. Sending was kind. Wait.
Let it be.
Troubleshoot: when it is a work link
Keep it relevant and short. Professional tone.
Be brief.
Troubleshoot: when they have different tastes
Share lightly and accept that tastes differ. No pressure.
Relax.
Drill: send a useful link
Send one useful link today to someone. Add a line.
Do it.
Drill: make a share list
List friends and their interests. Use it for ideas.
List.
Drill: keep a promises list
Write every small promise you make. Tick them off.
Track.
Easy things to say
When you are stuck, pick one of these. They work in many everyday friendships.
“Here is the photo from the other day.”
“This is the article I mentioned.”
“I thought you might like this.”
“What do you think of it?”
“Thanks for the idea.”
“Hope it helps.”
Your first week
One small action a day. Each day is only a little bigger than the last.
Remember what you said
Find the item
Add a short note
Send it soon
Ask a question
Wait for a reply
Share more later
Further reading
- Never Eat Alone (Keith Ferrazzi)
- Platonic (Marisa Franco)
- How to Win Friends and Influence People (Dale Carnegie)
The tips above are written in our own words and are general guidance. The books are suggestions for further reading.
More lessons in “How to Follow Up”
Keep going. Small steps every day make a big change.
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- Why Good Chats Fade Without Follow-Up
- People Want to Hear From You
- The Fear Behind Not Following Up
- Following Up Is Kindness, Not Needy
- The Twenty-Four-Hour Window
- One Message Can Change a Friendship
- Be the Person Who Makes the First Move
- Swap Contact Details Naturally
- The Same-Day Nice-to-Meet-You Message
- Mention Something From Your Chat
- Send a Photo or Link You Talked About
- Suggest a Next Step Lightly
- What to Write When You Are Shy
- What Not to Write
- Keep It Short and Specific
- Ask One Easy Question
- Use Their Name and Their Words
- Send a Voice Note
- Send Something Funny
- Use Emoji and Tone Wisely
- The Message That Never Fails
- Suggest a Specific Time and Place
- Offer a Simple Plan
- Confirm Plans the Day Before
- Handle Rescheduling Gracefully
- Follow Up After Meeting
- Plan the Second Meet-Up Before the First Ends
- Thank Them for Their Time
- Why People Go Quiet
- Wait, Then Send One Gentle Nudge
- Do Not Take Silence Personally
- Know When to Let Go
- Reconnect After Months
- Keep the Door Open
- Keep a Simple Friendship Notebook
- Set Weekly Reminders to Reach Out
- Reply Quickly to Messages
- Send Little Notes for No Reason
- Follow Up on Their News
- Your Follow-Up System
