LESSON 16 · BUILD TRUST THAT LASTS

Give Free Value That Matters

Forty practical ways to give free value that matters, without giving away your living.

Free value proves your worth. Give what helps; keep what pays.

40 tipsAudio on every tip7-day plan

40 tips that really help

These ideas come from The Go-Giver (Bob Burg and John David Mann), Give and Take (Adam Grant), They Ask, You Answer (Marcus Sheridan), and The Checklist Manifesto (Atul Gawande), and everyday practice. The first six help the most. Pick one and try it today.

Photo for the tip: Free value that opens doors
TIP 1

Free value that opens doors

A stranger who gives you something truly useful is remembered. Free value opens doors that advertising cannot. When you help first, customers listen in a different way.

TRY THIS
Think of one useful thing you could give a prospect for free this week, such as a tip, a link or a short review. Send it with a kind note.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Give a quick win in week one
TIP 2

Give a quick win in week one

The first days with a new customer matter most. One small, real benefit in the first week makes doubt fade. It does not need to be large, but it must come early.

TRY THIS
For your next new customer, plan one small win that you can deliver within seven days. Tell them what it will be at the start.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Make it so helpful they forward it
TIP 3

Make it so helpful they forward it

The best test of a free gift is: would the customer forward it? If they would, it is truly useful. When they send it on, they put their own name behind yours.

TRY THIS
Before you send your next free resource, ask, ‘Would they forward this to a colleague?’ If not, improve it until the answer is yes.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: A gift with no strings attached
TIP 4

A gift with no strings attached

A gift with a hidden price is bait. A gift with no strings says, ‘I wanted to help.’ The customer feels free and grateful, and may offer something back by choice.

TRY THIS
Send one useful thing to a prospect this week with no ask in the same message. Add ‘No need to reply’, and mean it.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: The free audit that wins clients
TIP 5

The free audit that wins clients

A free audit gives a customer an expert’s eyes on their own situation. They see real problems and ideas, specific to them, and they see how you think.

TRY THIS
Offer one prospect a thirty-minute free review of their plan, site or process. Set a clear limit, do it well, and send three honest findings.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Find the one thing they need most
TIP 6

Find the one thing they need most

Customers have many needs, but one matters most right now. Help with that one and your gift is remembered. The secret is to ask, ‘If you could fix one thing this month, what would it be?’

TRY THIS
Ask one customer, ‘If you could fix one thing this month, what would it be?’ Then offer one small piece of help with that.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Make it personal, not generic
TIP 7

Make it personal, not generic

A generic gift says, ‘I give this to everyone.’ A personal gift says, ‘I thought of you.’ A few personal touches turn something forgettable into something remembered.

TRY THIS
Before you send your next resource, add two lines that show why it fits this person, using something they told you.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Templates that save them an hour
TIP 8

Templates that save them an hour

A good template is a gift of time. If it saves the customer an hour, they will remember you. You have probably made many that are ready to share.

TRY THIS
Choose one template you use every week. Remove any private details, add a short note on how to use it, and send it to one customer.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: How much to give away, and when to stop
TIP 9

How much to give away, and when to stop

Giving is wonderful, but you have a business to run. Decide in advance what you give freely and what is paid work. Then you can be generous without worry.

TRY THIS
Write two lists: what you will always give for free, and what is paid work. Keep them in your notes, and use them when you are unsure.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Keep it simple and quick
TIP 10

Keep it simple and quick

Busy customers do not have time for long gifts. A one-page summary or a three-minute video will be used. Simple and quick says, ‘I know your time is precious.’

TRY THIS
Look at your last free resource. Cut it by half, put the main point in the first line, and test whether a busy person could use it in five minutes.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Introduce helpful people
TIP 11

Introduce helpful people

Your contacts are some of the most valuable things you own. Introducing a customer to someone who can solve their problem is a gift that saves weeks. People remember who opened a door.

TRY THIS
Think of one customer with a problem you cannot solve. Ask them if they would like an introduction to someone who can.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Send relevant articles
TIP 12

Send relevant articles

Sending an article is an easy gift, but a random one is ignored. A relevant article with one line of context turns a link into a kindness.

TRY THIS
When you read something good this week, think of one person who would benefit. Send it with one line on why.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Track the reaction
TIP 13

Track the reaction

How do you know your free value works? You watch the reaction. Do people open it, reply, share it or ask for more? Tracking helps you give more of what helps.

TRY THIS
For one month, note who replies to or uses each thing you give. At the end, list the two gifts that got the best response.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Follow up gently
TIP 14

Follow up gently

After you give something, a light follow-up can double its value. ‘Did that help?’ shows you care about the result. The key word is gently.

TRY THIS
A week after you send your next gift, ask, ‘Did that help? Is there anything else on this topic?’ Keep the tone warm, never pushy.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Reply fast: speed is a gift
TIP 15

Reply fast: speed is a gift

In a busy world, a fast reply feels like a gift. A customer who gets an answer in an hour notices. Speed costs no money, only attention.

TRY THIS
For one week, reply to every customer message within a set time, such as four hours. Tell them if you need longer, and give a time.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Give a free sample of your thinking
TIP 16

Give a free sample of your thinking

A free sample of your thinking shows how you would solve their problem. It could be a short note or a few lines. It shows the customer what working with you feels like.

TRY THIS
Write a half-page note on how you would approach one prospect’s problem. Send it with no pitch, and ask what they think.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Give a mini-audit in ten minutes
TIP 17

Give a mini-audit in ten minutes

A ten-minute audit is a quick free look at one small part of a customer’s situation. You spot two or three useful things. It is small enough to do often, and big enough to matter.

TRY THIS
Pick one prospect, and spend ten minutes looking at one small item of theirs. Send two findings in a short, friendly note.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Give a one-page plan
TIP 18

Give a one-page plan

A one-page plan turns a vague wish into a clear path. It takes away the fear of where to start. It shows that you listened and can think ahead.

TRY THIS
After your next conversation, write a one-page, thirty-day plan with five steps for the customer, and send it with no sales message.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Give a clear checklist for their situation
TIP 19

Give a clear checklist for their situation

A checklist turns what is in your head into something the customer can use. One made for their exact situation shows that you thought about them, and helps them avoid hidden errors.

TRY THIS
Create a seven-item checklist for a typical decision your customers face. Send one version tailored to a specific customer’s situation.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Give a benchmark
TIP 20

Give a benchmark

Customers often wonder how they compare with others. A benchmark gives them perspective: where they stand and where they could go. It is honest, useful and calm.

TRY THIS
Collect one simple benchmark from your field, with its source. Share it with a customer to help them see how they compare.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Give a simple calculator
TIP 21

Give a simple calculator

A simple calculator lets a customer see the numbers for their own case. A small sheet with three boxes and a result turns a vague idea into something real.

TRY THIS
Build a small spreadsheet with three input boxes and one clear result about a question customers ask. Share it with one customer, free.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Give a warning about a common trap
TIP 22

Give a warning about a common trap

Almost every field has traps that catch newcomers. When you warn a customer about one, you give them your eyes. It shows you care more about their safety than the sale.

TRY THIS
Name the one trap that catches most newcomers in your field. Share it with a customer with a simple way to avoid it.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Give an honest second opinion
TIP 23

Give an honest second opinion

A second opinion from a trusted expert brings calm, and confidence if it confirms the plan. If it finds a problem, it may save a great deal. Either way, it builds deep trust.

TRY THIS
Offer one customer a free second opinion on a quote or plan they received from someone else. Be fair, and only say what you truly believe.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Give a short call with your expertise
TIP 24

Give a short call with your expertise

Sometimes the best gift is twenty minutes of your time and your brain. A short call can be worth more than a long report. You give real value and hear the customer’s world.

TRY THIS
Offer one customer a free twenty-minute call this week to talk through a challenge. Bring one question and one idea.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Give a useful contact list
TIP 25

Give a useful contact list

You have met many good suppliers, advisers and specialists over the years. A short list of trusted contacts can save a customer weeks. You are lending them your reputation.

TRY THIS
Make a short list of five trusted contacts in areas related to your field. Ask each if you may share their name, then offer it to customers.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Give a free talk or webinar
TIP 26

Give a free talk or webinar

A free talk or webinar lets you help many customers at once. A clear topic, a friendly manner and honest answers are enough. People remember what they learned, and who taught it.

TRY THIS
Plan a thirty-minute online talk on one problem your customers have. Invite ten of them, and leave ten minutes for questions.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Give a short course by email
TIP 27

Give a short course by email

A short email course teaches one skill in five small lessons, each a five-minute read. Once written, it can help hundreds of people. Every lesson builds a little more trust.

TRY THIS
Outline a five-lesson email course on one problem customers face. Write the first lesson this week, in under three hundred words.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Give data you collected
TIP 28

Give data you collected

If you collect information in your work, you may hold data others would love to see. Shared carefully, it helps customers see their market more clearly. They cannot get it anywhere else.

TRY THIS
Look at the records you keep. Pick one simple pattern, such as an average or a trend, and share it with customers in a short note.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Give them a ready-made draft
TIP 29

Give them a ready-made draft

A blank page is the hardest page. A ready-made draft of a plan, brief or letter saves the customer the hardest part. It shows you understood their need.

TRY THIS
Offer to write a first draft of one thing a customer must produce, such as a brief or an email. Send it with ‘Change anything you like’.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Give a fair review of their options
TIP 30

Give a fair review of their options

When a customer is choosing between paths, they often feel lost. A fair review that includes options that are not yours shows that you want them to choose well.

TRY THIS
Write a one-page comparison of three options a customer is considering, including one that is not yours. Say where each is best.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Give updates on changes in their industry
TIP 31

Give updates on changes in their industry

Rules, prices and tools keep changing, and busy customers miss it. A short, clear update acts as an early-warning system. It protects them from surprises.

TRY THIS
When you hear of a change that affects your customers, send a three-line note: what changed, what it means and one thing to do.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Give early notice of a good deal
TIP 32

Give early notice of a good deal

Sometimes you hear of a good price or offer before most people. Telling customers early gives them a real advantage. They feel valued, and what matters is that you thought of them first.

TRY THIS
When you learn of a good offer, even one from a partner, tell the customers who would benefit before you tell anyone else.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Give feedback on their draft
TIP 33

Give feedback on their draft

Many customers have drafts but no one to ask for an honest view. Thoughtful feedback takes your time and care. Because it is personal, it is remembered.

TRY THIS
Offer one customer a short, honest read of a draft they are working on. Give two things that work, and two that could improve.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Give help in a crisis
TIP 34

Give help in a crisis

A crisis is when help matters most. If you help even in a small way, the customer never forgets. They remember who said, ‘Let me see what I can do.’

TRY THIS
Decide in advance how you will respond if a customer has an urgent problem, even one outside your work. Write down your first three actions.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Give a map of the options
TIP 35

Give a map of the options

Customers often face a maze of choices. A simple map shows where each road leads. It does not decide for them. It shows the territory, so they choose with a clear head.

TRY THIS
Draw a one-page map of the main options in a typical decision in your field. Share it with a customer who is choosing.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Give a decision guide
TIP 36

Give a decision guide

A decision guide helps the customer to decide with a few clear questions. ‘If this matters most, choose A. If that matters most, choose B.’ It puts the power in their hands.

TRY THIS
Write a short guide in ‘if this, then that’ form for a common decision. Test it on a colleague, and share it with a customer.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Give them questions to ask other sellers
TIP 37

Give them questions to ask other sellers

Teaching customers to question other sellers is one of the most trusted things you can do. ‘Here are five questions to ask any seller, including us.’ It shows you are not afraid of comparison.

TRY THIS
Write five questions that a smart buyer should ask any seller in your field. Share them with prospects, including the ones that test you.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Give free value and ask for nothing
TIP 38

Give free value and ask for nothing

The strongest free gift is given with a quiet heart. You help, and do not ask for a reply, a meeting or a sale. Goodwill does its own work, in its own time.

TRY THIS
Give one gift this week with a genuinely open hand: no ask, no follow-up pitch, no score. Notice how it feels.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Give what only you can give
TIP 39

Give what only you can give

Everyone has something that is truly their own: a skill, an experience or a way of seeing. If you give what only you can give, your gift cannot be copied.

TRY THIS
Write down three things you know or have learned that most people in your field do not. Choose one to share with a customer this week.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English
Photo for the tip: Make your gift easy to open and use
TIP 40

Make your gift easy to open and use

A gift that is hard to open is not much of a gift. Think of the customer on a phone between meetings. Can they open it in one tap and use it in two minutes?

TRY THIS
Test your last free resource on a phone. Cut every step between the customer and the value, and make the first line useful.
Listen to the full explanation 2 min · American English

Easy things to say

When you are stuck, pick one of these. They work in many sales conversations.

OFFER

“I made a short checklist you can use right away.”

REVIEW

“I am happy to look at it for ten minutes.”

TIP

“Here is a quick fix for that problem.”

LINK

“This article answers your question well.”

BOUNDARY

“The full audit is part of our paid service.”

THANKS

“Glad it helped.”

Your first week

One small action a day. Each day is only a little bigger than the last.

DAY 1
Choose one free asset to create
DAY 2
Write a one-page guide
DAY 3
Offer a ten-minute review
DAY 4
Set your free and paid line
DAY 5
Share one free tip today
DAY 6
Track what leads to conversations
DAY 7
Refine the asset

Further reading

  • How to Win Friends and Influence People (Dale Carnegie)
  • The Go-Giver (Bob Burg and John David Mann)
  • The Trusted Advisor (David Maister and others)

The tips above are written in our own words and are general guidance. The books are suggestions for further reading.

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  2. Use Their Name the Right Way
  3. Find Common Ground Fast
  4. Match Their Pace and Energy
  5. Small Talk That Opens Doors
  6. Be Interested, Not Just Interesting
  7. The First Five Minutes Checklist
  8. Do What You Say You Will Do
  9. Be Honest About What You Cannot Do
  10. Share Bad News Early
  11. Admit a Mistake and Fix It Fast
  12. Give Before You Ask
  13. Show Proof Instead of Making Claims
  14. Keep Promises Small and Real
  15. Be an Expert Who Teaches
  16. Give Free Value That Matters
  17. Recommend What Is Right, Even If It Is Smaller
  18. Tell Customers What You Would Do
  19. Be Independent and Honest
  20. Think Long Term, Not This Month
  21. Make Customers Smarter
  22. Open Posture, Open Mind
  23. The Right Amount of Eye Contact
  24. A Voice That Feels Safe
  25. Mirror Without Mimicking
  26. Dress for the Customer You Serve
  27. Make Video Calls Feel Personal
  28. Read Signs of Discomfort
  29. Remember the Small Details
  30. Send the Unexpected Thank-You
  31. Check In Without Selling
  32. Celebrate Their Wins
  33. Introduce People to Each Other
  34. Build a Simple Relationship System
  35. What to Do When You Make a Mistake
  36. A Sincere Apology That Works
  37. Turn an Angry Customer Into a Fan
  38. Rebuild Trust After a Missed Deadline
  39. When a Customer Doubts You
  40. Rise Above Gossip and Reviews
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