Look Present on a Long Call
Thirty-two ways to look present and energised on a long call, without staring or burning out.
Long calls drain attention. Small habits keep you present.
40 tips that really help
These ideas come from What Every BODY Is Saying (Joe Navarro), The Definitive Book of Body Language (Allan and Barbara Pease), Presence (Amy Cuddy), and everyday practice. Pick one tip and try it today.
Long calls drain attention
After forty minutes on screen, attention naturally fades, and the face goes flat. You can stay present with tiny breaks and body movements, without anyone noticing you have rested.
Plan one mini-break in every call longer than forty minutes.
The twenty-twenty-twenty habit
Eye specialists often suggest looking at something about twenty feet away for twenty seconds every twenty minutes. On a call, glance at a far window or door while someone else is speaking.
Glance at a far wall for twenty seconds during a long speaker.
Blink on purpose
We blink far less when we look at screens, which makes eyes dry and tired. A slow, deliberate blink every few seconds refreshes them and softens your look on camera.
Blink slowly three times now.
Take sips on schedule
Sip water at the start of each agenda item. The small movement refreshes you, hydrates your voice and gives your eyes a natural reset.
Place a glass beside you and sip at every new topic.
Roll your shoulders under the frame
Tension builds quickly in a long call. A slow shoulder roll and neck stretch below the camera’s view release it without disturbing anyone.
Roll your shoulders once every ten minutes.
Sit tall, then change position
Slouching adds fatigue, so sit tall, and shift your posture every fifteen minutes. A small position change wakes you up.
Change your sitting position at the half-hour mark.
Stand for part of the call
If you can, stand for a section, such as the final twenty minutes. Standing lifts energy and brightens your face and voice.
Raise your laptop or use a stack of boxes to stand for a segment.
Use speaker view to reduce clutter
Looking at a grid of faces is tiring. Speaker view reduces visual noise so your eyes rest on one person at a time.
Switch to speaker view in your next large call.
Hide self-view
Watching yourself all the time is exhausting and makes you self-critical. Hide it and give your attention to others.
Turn off self-view.
Take notes by hand
Writing gives your eyes and hands a task and keeps you engaged. Look up when someone makes a key point.
Keep a pen and notepad beside the camera.
Ask a question
A question keeps you alert and shows presence. It also gives you a reason to look at the lens.
Prepare one question for every call.
Summarise a point
Paraphrasing a point in your head, or aloud when appropriate, keeps your mind in the conversation.
Summarise one point silently every ten minutes.
Use the chat
A short chat comment shows you are present and gives you something small to do.
Add one comment per half hour.
Smile at the right moments
A smile when someone says something good refreshes your face and mood.
Smile at the next good point.
Nod
Nodding keeps you alert and shows you are present.
Nod softly when it fits.
Eat well beforehand
A good meal helps energy. Avoid a sugar crash before a long call.
Eat protein before long calls.
Go easy on caffeine
Too much can make you jittery, and a crash can make you flat. Use moderately.
Limit coffee before a long call.
Sleep well
Rest helps attention more than any trick.
Protect your sleep before a big day of calls.
Leave gaps between calls
Back-to-back calls are exhausting. Even five minutes between them helps your eyes and mind recover.
Block five minutes after each call.
Suggest shorter meetings
Twenty-five or fifty minutes leave time to reset. Many teams find shorter meetings more productive.
Propose shorter slots for your own meetings.
Suggest walking calls
Some one-to-one calls can be done by phone while walking. Movement and fresh air restore energy.
Take one call on a walk.
Suggest breaks in long sessions
A five-minute break each hour helps everyone. Ask politely.
Suggest a break in your next long meeting.
Suggest camera-off breaks
If the culture allows, turning the camera off briefly for a stretch or water can help. Say so kindly.
Ask if a short break would suit the group.
Look kindly at faces
Your attention nourishes speakers. Even when tired, a kind look helps them.
Look at each speaker for a few seconds.
Look at the lens when you speak
Look at the lens when you contribute. It makes your presence feel stronger even when you are tired.
Look at the lens for your key line.
Keep your face relaxed
Tension tires you. Soften your forehead and jaw.
Relax your face.
Breathe
Slow breaths refresh your body and mind.
Take a slow breath.
Change position
Shift in your chair, stretch your legs, flex your feet. Small movement helps.
Move a little.
Use a fidget below the frame
A quiet fidget can help restless energy without drawing attention.
Try a small stress ball.
Keep the light on
Good light helps alertness. Dim rooms make you sleepy.
Turn on a lamp.
Open a window
Fresh air helps you stay alert.
Open a window.
Dim the screen if it glares
Too much brightness tires eyes. Adjust.
Lower brightness slightly.
Use a warmer screen colour in the evening
Evening calls may suit warmer screen colours to ease strain.
Adjust your screen colour.
Do not multitask
It exhausts you and everyone can tell. Do one thing.
Focus on one task.
Be honest when you fade
If you are fading, ask for a break or a recap. Honesty helps.
Say, “Could we take a short break?”
Plan your low points
Most people fade at predictable times, such as just after lunch. Plan a stretch, a sip or a standing moment exactly then.
Note when you tend to fade and prepare a reset.
Recover after
After a long call, step away, move and look at something far away. Your body needs it.
Take a five-minute walk.
Celebrate stamina
Staying present through a long call is a real skill. Notice how you did it.
Say, “I stayed present.”
Use the first and last five minutes
People remember the start and end of a call best. Give those minutes your freshest attention and your warmest looks, and you can ease slightly in the middle.
Plan to be extra present in the opening and closing.
Make eye contact a reward, not a chore
Treat looking at the lens or at a face as a small pleasure, like smiling at a friend. A kinder attitude uses less energy than forcing yourself to stay alert.
Remind yourself, “I get to connect with these people.”
Easy things to say
When you are stuck, pick one of these. They work in many everyday situations.
“Thanks everyone, let us begin.”
“Shall we take a short break?”
“Let me summarise what we have covered.”
“Does anyone want to add something?”
“Thank you for staying engaged.”
“We made good progress today.”
Your first week
One small action a day. Each day is only a little bigger than the last.
Sit well
Drink water
Take micro breaks
Rest your eyes
Vary your posture
Ask questions
Recap at the end
Further reading
- What Every BODY Is Saying (Joe Navarro)
- The Definitive Book of Body Language (Allan and Barbara Pease)
- Presence (Amy Cuddy)
The tips above are written in our own words and are general guidance. The books are suggestions for further reading.
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- The Three-Second Rule
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- Practise With a Mirror First
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- Build Up Slowly Day by Day
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- Eye Contact in Groups
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- Use Your Eyes to Show Interest
- The First Hello
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- Eye Contact When Saying Sorry
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- Eye Contact When Giving a Speech
- Eye Contact With Someone Senior
- Look at the Camera, Not the Screen
- Set Your Screen Up for Better Contact
- Nod and React on Video
- Avoid the Wandering Eye Online
- Look Present on a Long Call
- Build Warmth Through a Lens
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- Respect Someone Who Avoids Your Gaze
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