Summarise Every Agreement Out Loud
Practical ways to summarise every agreement out loud, so nothing is left to memory or misunderstanding.
Say it back. Clarity protects both sides.
10 tips that really help
These ideas come from Never Split the Difference (Chris Voss), Getting to Yes (Roger Fisher and William Ury), Start With No (Jim Camp), and everyday practice. The first six help the most. Pick one and try it today.
Say it back
Summarising every agreement aloud ensures both sides share the same understanding before leaving.
Do it each time.
Summarise after each point
Frequent recaps catch misunderstandings early and keep the talk organised.
Practise it.
Summarise at the end
A closing recap confirms all the terms in one clear statement.
Prepare it.
Use specific words
Precise terms, such as dates and amounts, prevent later disputes.
Choose carefully.
Check understanding
Ask have I got that right? and wait for confirmation.
Ask kindly.
Note any differences
If their version differs, fix it now rather than later.
Write both.
Confirm in writing afterwards
A written follow-up locks in what was said.
Send it promptly.
Thank them
Gratitude closes the conversation warmly.
Say it.
Keep a template
A simple recap format saves time.
Create one.
Memory differs
Summaries align it.
Do it.
Easy things to say
When you are stuck, pick one of these. They work in many sales conversations.
“So we agree on price, timing and scope.”
“Have I got that right?”
“Delivery is on the fifth.”
“I will send it in writing today.”
“Thank you.”
“Please let me know if anything differs.”
Your first week
One small action a day. Each day is only a little bigger than the last.
Summarise after each point
Summarise at the end
Check understanding
Note differences
Confirm in writing
Thank them
Review
Further reading
- Never Split the Difference (Chris Voss)
- Getting to Yes (Roger Fisher and William Ury)
- Start With No (Jim Camp)
The tips above are written in our own words and are general guidance. The books are suggestions for further reading.
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