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LESSON 01 · MAKE THE FIRST CONTACT COUNT

Why Calls Still Beat Everything

Forty friendly ways to make phone calls feel natural, short and productive.

A call is just a conversation. Warm, short and honest beats clever.

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40 tips that really help

These ideas come from well-known prospecting books and from real-life practice. The first six calm your nerves fastest. Pick one and try it today.

TIP 1

Calls still win

Phone calls reach people faster and more personally than most messages. Jeb Blount makes this case in Fanatical Prospecting. A real call is still one of the strongest ways to connect.

TRY THIS
Pick one prospect you have only written to. Plan a short, friendly call for today.

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TIP 2

A call is a conversation

You are not performing. You are talking to a person who may be busy. A call is a conversation between two people, not a show.

TRY THIS
Before your next call, say the sentence ‘This is a conversation with a person.’ Picture the person at their desk, with their own day.

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TIP 3

Write a 20-second opening

A short, clear start helps you stay calm. Say who you are, why you call and what you want. A clear twenty-second opening keeps you calm and the listener curious.

TRY THIS
Write three sentences: who you are, why you call and what you ask. Read it aloud three times and shorten it.

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TIP 4

Smile when you dial

People hear warmth in your voice. It also calms you. A smile can be heard, so smile before you dial.

TRY THIS
Put a small smiley sticker by your phone. Smile for three seconds before each call.

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TIP 5

Stand up to call

Standing makes your voice stronger and clearer. Stand for your next five calls. Stand up, and your voice will stand up too.

TRY THIS
Before your next call, stand up and place your feet apart. Keep your head level and your shoulders loose.

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TIP 6

Have a glass of water ready

A dry mouth shakes your voice. A sip fixes it. A glass of water keeps your voice smooth.

TRY THIS
Put a glass of water by your phone before your calls. Take a small sip before each call.

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TIP 7

Use a friendly interrupt

Say, ‘I know I am calling out of the blue.’ People often relax when you are honest. One honest line can turn a cold call warm.

TRY THIS
Write the line ‘I know I am calling out of the blue.’ Add it to your opening, after your name.

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TIP 8

Give a reason to talk

Customers want to know why you are calling them in particular. Write one specific reason for each call. A specific reason answers the question ‘Why me?’

TRY THIS
Pick three prospects to call today. For each, write one specific, true reason in a single line.

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TIP 9

Start with their world

Open with something about them, not about you. Mention a detail you learned about the person. Open with something about their world.

TRY THIS
Spend five minutes on one prospect’s website or posts. Write one detail you can mention in one line.

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TIP 10

Ask for permission

‘Is now a good time?’ shows respect and often gets more attention. Use ‘Do you have a minute?’ on your next call. Ask for a minute, and you may get more.

TRY THIS
Write ‘Do you have a minute?’ on a card. Use it after your opening on your next five calls.

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TIP 11

Keep it under two minutes at first

Short calls feel safe and easy to agree to. Time your next call and aim for under two minutes. Keep first calls short, and people will stay on the line.

TRY THIS
On your next call, say ‘I will keep this short.’ Set a timer for two minutes.

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TIP 12

Speak slowly

Nerves make us rush. Slow down by about ten percent. A slightly slower voice sounds calm and sure.

TRY THIS
Record one call, or read your opening aloud into your phone. Listen for speed, and mark where you rush.

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TIP 13

Use simple words

Plain language is easy to follow and easy to trust. Replace one jargon word in your script. Plain words are easier to follow and easier to trust.

TRY THIS
Read your opening aloud. Mark any word you would not say to a friend.

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TIP 14

Ask one clear question

Questions keep the call in their hands and in yours. Write your best opening question. One clear question turns a pitch into a talk.

TRY THIS
Write one open question that suits your ideal customer. Check that it cannot be answered with just ‘no’.

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TIP 15

Listen more than you speak

People remember sellers who listened. Aim to talk less than half of the call. Listen more than you speak, and people remember you.

TRY THIS
On your next call, aim to speak less than half of the time. After each question, count to two before you speak.

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TIP 16

Take notes while you talk

Notes help you remember and show you care. Keep a pen and notepad by the phone. Take notes, and remember what people tell you.

TRY THIS
Put a notepad and pen by your phone. On your next call, write name, date, worries and next steps.

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TIP 17

Know your goal for each call

A goal could be a meeting, an answer or a name. Choose one. One clear goal keeps the call on track.

TRY THIS
Before each call, write one goal on a sticky note. Keep it small, such as a meeting, a name or an answer.

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TIP 18

Prepare in five minutes

A quick look at their website and profile helps you sound informed. Spend five minutes preparing before each call. Five minutes of preparation makes a call feel personal.

TRY THIS
Pick one prospect. Spend five minutes on their website, profile and news.

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TIP 19

Call at the right time

Mornings and late afternoons often work for business buyers. Test two calling times this week. Test your calling times, and use the best.

TRY THIS
Choose two calling times to test this week. Make five calls at each, and note the answers.

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TIP 20

Batch your calls

Call in a focused block. It builds rhythm and confidence. A focused call block builds rhythm and confidence.

TRY THIS
Block one hour in your diary for calls tomorrow. Prepare your list and notes the day before.

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TIP 21

Call before you feel ready

The feeling of readiness often follows the first call. Make your first call right after reading this. Start before you feel ready, and readiness will follow.

TRY THIS
Choose one easy contact to call right after you finish this tip. Count to five, take a breath and dial.

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TIP 22

Get used to the first "no"

Early rejection is normal. It does not mean you do badly. Noes are a normal part of the way to a yes.

TRY THIS
Draw a tally sheet for your next call block. Mark each no as a step towards a yes.

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TIP 23

Handle "I am busy" kindly

Say, ‘Understood. When is a better time?’ and mean it. Practise this line aloud. Answer ‘I am busy’ with respect, and ask for a better time.

TRY THIS
Write the line ‘Understood. When would be a better time?’ Say it aloud five times, in a warm voice.

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TIP 24

Handle "send me an email"

Ask one gentle question first, then agree and follow up. Prepare a friendly reply to ‘send me an email’. Ask one gentle question, then send a short note.

TRY THIS
Write a friendly reply to ‘send me an email’ with one question. Practise it aloud.

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TIP 25

Be pleasant to gatekeepers

Assistants are people. Respect gets you farther than tricks. Be pleasant to gatekeepers, and they may help you.

TRY THIS
On your next call, ask the gatekeeper’s name. Ask for their advice on how to reach the person.

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TIP 26

Leave short voicemails

Say your name, reason and number twice, in under 30 seconds. Write and practise a 25-second voicemail. A short, clear voicemail is far more likely to be returned.

TRY THIS
Write a 25-second voicemail with name, reason and number twice. Practise it aloud, and time it.

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TIP 27

Follow a voicemail with an email

A short note reinforces your message. Send one email after each voicemail. Follow a voicemail with a short email.

TRY THIS
After your next voicemail, write a three-line email. Mention the voicemail, your reason and one easy next step.

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TIP 28

Redial at different times

Try again later in the day or week before giving up. Set a reminder for a second attempt. Try again at a different time before you give up.

TRY THIS
Pick one prospect who did not answer. Set two reminders to call again at different times.

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TIP 29

Use their name once

Hearing your name feels warm. Once is enough. Use their name once, and say it with warmth.

TRY THIS
Check the spelling and the sound of your prospect’s name. Use it once at the start of your call.

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TIP 30

Mirror their energy

If they are brisk, be brisk. If they are slow, slow down. Notice and match the pace of your next caller. Match the other person’s pace, and rapport grows.

TRY THIS
In your next call, listen to the first sentence for pace and tone. Adjust your pace a little to be close to theirs.

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TIP 31

Say thank you at the end

A grateful close leaves a good feeling. End every call with a sincere thank you.

TRY THIS
Write your closing line, such as ‘Thank you for your time, and have a good day.’ Say it with warmth on your next five calls.

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TIP 32

Confirm the next step

Repeat what you agreed and when. Say, ‘So I will send it Tuesday.’ End each call with a clear next step and a date.

TRY THIS
Write a closing line: ‘So I will do X by Y, and we will speak on Z. Does that work?’ Use it at the end of your next call.

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TIP 33

Log every call

Short notes make your next call stronger. Write one line after each call. A one-line log makes every next call stronger.

TRY THIS
Open a sheet with columns: date, person, what happened and next step. After each call, write one line.

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TIP 34

Review your best call

Study what you did when it went well. Note three things you did on your best call. Study your best call, and repeat what worked.

TRY THIS
Choose your best call this week. Write three things you did that helped.

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TIP 35

Learn from a bad call

One bad call teaches more than ten easy ones. Write one lesson from your hardest call. A bad call is a teacher, so learn from it kindly.

TRY THIS
After your next hard call, take a two-minute break. Write three lines: what happened, what I felt, what I will change.

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TIP 36

Practise with a friend

Role-play gives you a safe place to improve. Do a five-minute practice call with a friend. Practise with a friend before you call a stranger.

TRY THIS
Ask a friend or colleague for a five-minute practice call. Play a call with your opening, and one tough reply.

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TIP 37

Count your calls

What you measure improves. Count calls and conversations. Count your calls, and you will see where to improve.

TRY THIS
Make a simple tally sheet with calls, conversations and next steps. Fill it in after each call block.

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TIP 38

Celebrate every ten calls

Reward effort, not just results. Choose a small treat for 10 calls. Celebrate every ten calls, and keep going.

TRY THIS
Choose a small treat for every ten calls. Write it on your tally sheet.

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TIP 39

Make calling a daily habit

Small daily action builds big skill. Put a call block on your calendar every day. A small daily habit builds a big skill.

TRY THIS
Add a daily call block to your calendar, even if only for fifteen minutes. Prepare your list the day before.

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TIP 40

Pick up the phone now

The next best step is a call. Dial one person today. Pick up the phone now, and make one call.

TRY THIS
Choose one person on your list. Write your opening, stand and smile.

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Easy things to say

When you are stuck, pick one of these. They work in many sales conversations.

OPEN

“Hi, it is Sam from Bright Tools. Do you have a quick minute?”

HONEST

“I know I am calling out of the blue.”

REASON

“I am calling because other shops like yours have struggled with this.”

ASK

“Would a short chat on Thursday work?”

EASY OUT

“If it is not a good time, just say so.”

CLOSE

“Thank you for your time today.”

Your first week

One small action a day. Each day is only a little bigger than the last.

DAY 1
Write your 20-second opening

DAY 2
Call one friendly contact

DAY 3
Make five short calls

DAY 4
Leave one good voicemail

DAY 5
Book one meeting

DAY 6
Review what worked

DAY 7
Make ten calls in one hour

Further reading

• Fanatical Prospecting (Jeb Blount)
• Cold Calling Techniques (Stephan Schiffman)
• The Little Red Book of Selling (Jeffrey Gitomer)

The tips above are written in our own words and are general guidance. The books are suggestions for further reading.

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