LESSON 20 · KEEP CUSTOMERS AND WIN REFERRALS

Turn a Bad Review Into a Good Story

Practical ways to turn a bad review into a good story, with a calm, public, human reply.

Others read your reply. Show your character.

10 tipsEasy things to say7-day plan

10 tips that really help

These ideas come from The Little Red Book of Selling (Jeffrey Gitomer), Never Eat Alone (Keith Ferrazzi), Raving Fans (Ken Blanchard and Sheldon Bowles), and everyday practice. The first six help the most. Pick one and try it today.

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TIP 1

Others read your reply

A calm, public response shows future customers exactly how you treat people when things go wrong.

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Be thoughtful.
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TIP 2

Wait before you reply

Cooling down for an hour or a night keeps your words measured and kind.

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Pause first.
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TIP 3

Thank them first

Starting with appreciation, even for harsh feedback, sets a constructive tone.

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Begin there.
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TIP 4

Apologise sincerely

Own what went wrong without excuses or blame.

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Write it simply.
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TIP 5

Offer to fix it offline

Give a contact so details can be handled privately.

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Add a phone or email.
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TIP 6

Ask gently whether they would update their review

Only after a real fix, and without pressure.

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Be patient.
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TIP 7

Learn from the criticism

Treat it as feedback on your process.

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Note one change.
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TIP 8

Respond to praise too

Thanking happy reviewers builds a positive public record.

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Reply to three.
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TIP 9

Reviews are public

Future customers watch your reply.

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Be kind.
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TIP 10

Thank them

Even for criticism.

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Start there.

Easy things to say

When you are stuck, pick one of these. They work in many sales conversations.

THANKS

“Thank you for your feedback.”

SORRY

“I am sorry we fell short.”

FIX

“Here is what we have done.”

INVITE

“Please contact me so I can help.”

CALM

“We value your comments.”

CLOSE

“Kind regards.”

Your first week

One small action a day. Each day is only a little bigger than the last.

DAY 1
Read calmly
DAY 2
Wait before replying
DAY 3
Reply politely
DAY 4
Offer to fix it offline
DAY 5
Fix the issue
DAY 6
Thank them after
DAY 7
Review

Further reading

  • The Little Red Book of Selling (Jeffrey Gitomer)
  • Never Eat Alone (Keith Ferrazzi)
  • Raving Fans (Ken Blanchard and Sheldon Bowles)

The tips above are written in our own words and are general guidance. The books are suggestions for further reading.

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  2. Follow Up Within 24 Hours
  3. The Five-Touch Follow-Up Plan
  4. Give Value in Every Message
  5. Use Phone, Email and Messages Together
  6. Say "I Am Checking In" Better
  7. Follow Up With a Helpful Link or Idea
  8. Under-Promise, Over-Deliver
  9. Respond Faster Than Expected
  10. Surprise Them With a Small Gift
  11. Remember Birthdays and Milestones
  12. Handwritten Notes Still Win
  13. Make Onboarding Easy
  14. Fix Problems Before They Notice
  15. Listen First, Fix Second
  16. Say Sorry Without Excuses
  17. Offer a Solution, Not a Speech
  18. Follow Up After the Fix
  19. Learn From Every Complaint
  20. Turn a Bad Review Into a Good Story
  21. Know When to Escalate
  22. Review Accounts Every Quarter
  23. Ask "What Else Could Help?"
  24. The Gentle Upsell
  25. Cross-Sell With Care
  26. Find the Next Department or Branch
  27. Renewals Without Panic
  28. Celebrate Customer Anniversaries
  29. Ask at the Moment of Joy
  30. A Simple Referral Script
  31. Give Customers an Easy Way to Share
  32. Thank Referrers Beautifully
  33. Referral Partnerships
  34. Collect Reviews the Right Way
  35. Build a Personal Brand
  36. Keep Learning Every Year
  37. Protect Your Reputation
  38. Balance Work and Life
  39. Teach Others What You Know
  40. Your Ten-Year Selling Plan
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