LESSON 04 · KEEP CUSTOMERS AND WIN REFERRALS

Give Value in Every Message

Practical ways to give value in every message, so people welcome your follow-ups.

Never send an empty message. Always bring something useful.

10 tipsEasy things to say7-day plan

10 tips that really help

These ideas come from The Little Red Book of Selling (Jeffrey Gitomer), Never Eat Alone (Keith Ferrazzi), Raving Fans (Ken Blanchard and Sheldon Bowles), and everyday practice. The first six help the most. Pick one and try it today.

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TIP 1

Never send an empty message

Each follow-up should give the person something useful, so they welcome your name in their inbox.

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Add value always.
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TIP 2

Collect useful content

Articles, tips and tools you can share keep your messages rich.

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Save them as you read.
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TIP 3

Match content to the person

A relevant tip shows you know their situation.

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Think about them first.
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TIP 4

Add a short note on why

One sentence explaining why you sent it makes the link clear.

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Write it.
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TIP 5

Avoid pure sales pitches

Messages that only sell are ignored, while helpful ones are read.

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Check your balance.
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TIP 6

Share a quick win

An easy idea they can try today earns goodwill.

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Prepare one.
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TIP 7

Ask if it helped

A simple question opens the door to conversation.

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Add it.
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TIP 8

Track responses

Learn which content gets replies.

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Note them.
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TIP 9

Add a short note

Explain why you sent it.

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Write.
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TIP 10

Value earns attention

Helpful messages get opened.

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Collect.

Easy things to say

When you are stuck, pick one of these. They work in many sales conversations.

VALUE

“I thought this tip might help you.”

SHARE

“Here is a short guide.”

IDEA

“One idea for your next campaign.”

CHECK

“Was that useful?”

OFFER

“I can send more if you like.”

THANKS

“Thank you.”

Your first week

One small action a day. Each day is only a little bigger than the last.

DAY 1
Collect useful content
DAY 2
Match it to each customer
DAY 3
Add a short note
DAY 4
Avoid pure sales pitches
DAY 5
Ask if it helped
DAY 6
Track responses
DAY 7
Review

Further reading

  • The Little Red Book of Selling (Jeffrey Gitomer)
  • Never Eat Alone (Keith Ferrazzi)
  • Raving Fans (Ken Blanchard and Sheldon Bowles)

The tips above are written in our own words and are general guidance. The books are suggestions for further reading.

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  1. Why Most Sales Are Lost in the Follow-Up
  2. Follow Up Within 24 Hours
  3. The Five-Touch Follow-Up Plan
  4. Give Value in Every Message
  5. Use Phone, Email and Messages Together
  6. Say "I Am Checking In" Better
  7. Follow Up With a Helpful Link or Idea
  8. Under-Promise, Over-Deliver
  9. Respond Faster Than Expected
  10. Surprise Them With a Small Gift
  11. Remember Birthdays and Milestones
  12. Handwritten Notes Still Win
  13. Make Onboarding Easy
  14. Fix Problems Before They Notice
  15. Listen First, Fix Second
  16. Say Sorry Without Excuses
  17. Offer a Solution, Not a Speech
  18. Follow Up After the Fix
  19. Learn From Every Complaint
  20. Turn a Bad Review Into a Good Story
  21. Know When to Escalate
  22. Review Accounts Every Quarter
  23. Ask "What Else Could Help?"
  24. The Gentle Upsell
  25. Cross-Sell With Care
  26. Find the Next Department or Branch
  27. Renewals Without Panic
  28. Celebrate Customer Anniversaries
  29. Ask at the Moment of Joy
  30. A Simple Referral Script
  31. Give Customers an Easy Way to Share
  32. Thank Referrers Beautifully
  33. Referral Partnerships
  34. Collect Reviews the Right Way
  35. Build a Personal Brand
  36. Keep Learning Every Year
  37. Protect Your Reputation
  38. Balance Work and Life
  39. Teach Others What You Know
  40. Your Ten-Year Selling Plan
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