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LESSON 27 · OVERCOMING NERVOUSNESS

Use a Cue Card, Not a Script

Thirty easy ways to use a cue card, not a script, so you sound natural and never get lost.

Key words, not sentences. Talk, do not read.

40 tipsEasy things to say7-day plan

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40 tips that really help

These ideas come from Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway (Susan Jeffers), The Upside of Stress (Kelly McGonigal), The 5 Second Rule (Mel Robbins), and everyday practice. Pick one tip and try it today.

TIP 1

Key words, not sentences

A cue card with a few key words keeps you natural and free. A full script tempts you to read, and then you sound flat and lose eye contact.

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Turn your talk into ten key words.

TIP 2

Why scripts trap you

If you rely on every word, one slip can derail you. With key points, you can find your place instantly and speak in your own voice.

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Replace one paragraph with three key words.

TIP 3

Use large print

Write cue cards in thick pen with big letters. In a nervous moment, you will see them at a glance.

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Write your card so you can read it at arm’s length.

TIP 4

Use small cards

Index cards are easy to hold and discreet. Keep them to one idea each.

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Use one idea per card.

TIP 5

Number your cards

If you drop them, numbers save you. Punch a hole and tie them with a ring if you like.

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Number every card in the corner.

TIP 6

Write the first sentence in full

You do not need a script, but your first sentence helps you start. Add your last sentence too.

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Write the first and last sentence fully.

TIP 7

Use symbols

Little drawings, such as a star for a story or an arrow for a pause, help you recall. Visual cues are quick.

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Add three symbols to your card.

TIP 8

Use colour

Highlight key words or use a colour for each section. Colour guides your eye.

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Colour-code sections.

TIP 9

Keep to three main points

The “rule of three” is easy to remember and easy to follow. Audiences also remember threes.

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Boil your talk down to three points.

TIP 10

Use short phrases

“Story: lost bag” is better than a whole story. Short prompts trigger memory.

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Write three-word prompts.

TIP 11

Leave space

Do not cram cards. White space makes it easier to find your place.

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Space your words out.

TIP 12

Add stage directions

Write “pause”, “smile”, “ask question” on your card. Reminders keep you calm and human.

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Add three directions to your card.

TIP 13

Add timing marks

Note a time beside each section so you can keep pace. It reduces the fear of running over.

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Put minutes beside each point.

TIP 14

Practise with the card

Rehearse using the card so that you know how it feels. Look down briefly and up often.

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Practise once with just your cards.

TIP 15

Look up often

Glance at your card, then look at your audience. Eye contact creates connection.

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Look up after every point.

TIP 16

Hold cards low

Hold cards near your waist, so your face is visible. Do not hide behind them.

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Hold your card at chest level.

TIP 17

Use a lectern

If there is one, rest your cards on it and let your hands move freely. It steadies you.

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Place your cards on the lectern.

TIP 18

Keep your thumb on the place

A thumb on the line you are at helps you find your place after a glance away.

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Use your thumb as a marker.

TIP 19

Do not wave the card

Shaking cards can reveal nerves. Rest your hand on a surface if you can.

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Steady your hand against your body.

TIP 20

Do not read from your phone

Phones can show notifications and distract you. Use paper if possible.

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Print your cues.

TIP 21

Prepare a backup version

Keep a longer version of your notes in your bag in case you need it. A back-up gives peace of mind.

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Print a full script as a safety net.

TIP 22

Use cue cards for calls too

A sheet with three bullet points before a phone call keeps you on track. It is much calmer than hoping to remember.

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Write three bullets before your next call.

TIP 23

Use cue cards for meetings

One line per point helps you speak clearly and briefly. A neat note looks professional.

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Bring a one-page cue sheet to your next meeting.

TIP 24

Use cue cards for hard talks

Jot down the main points you want to say and a kind opening. It keeps you from rambling.

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Write your three key points.

TIP 25

Use cue cards for interviews

Write down your key stories and questions. A tidy notebook is accepted and shows preparation.

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Bring a notebook with prepared points.

TIP 26

Use cue cards for toasts

A short toast can slip from your mind in the moment. A small card keeps you graceful.

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Write your toast in key words.

TIP 27

Know your material

Cue cards work best when you know your topic well. Practise until the key words trigger the story.

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Practise telling each point without the card.

TIP 28

Tell stories, not facts

Stories are easier to remember because they have a shape: beginning, middle, end. Make each point a mini story.

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Turn one fact into a short story.

TIP 29

Use analogies

A simple comparison helps you explain and remember an idea. Analogies are easy to hold in mind.

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Create one comparison for your main point.

TIP 30

Plan your transitions

Write the phrase that links each point: “Next, let us look at…” It stops sudden jumps.

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Add a link phrase between points.

TIP 31

Rehearse the end

Know your closing line well. A strong finish lingers.

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Write and practise your last sentence.

TIP 32

Prepare for questions

Write likely questions on a card with short answers. Practice makes answers smooth.

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Add a “Q and A” card.

TIP 33

Be okay with pausing

A pause to read a card is normal. Audiences like calm speakers.

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Practise a calm look-down pause.

TIP 34

Do not apologise for notes

Notes are a sign of care, not weakness. Many professional speakers use them.

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Use your cards openly.

TIP 35

Test legibility

Practise reading your card from standing height in dim light. Adjust if needed.

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Check in the venue light.

TIP 36

Keep cards tidy

Bent corners and messy handwriting raise stress. A neat card calms the mind.

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Rewrite messy cards.

TIP 37

Update after practice

After each practice, adjust the cards to improve flow. They evolve.

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Edit your cards after rehearsal.

TIP 38

Trust your voice

With key words, you will use your natural voice. That is what audiences like.

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Say, “I speak best in my own words.”

TIP 39

Celebrate the shift

Moving from script to cue cards is a big step. Be proud.

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Tell yourself, “I can speak from key points.”

TIP 40

Let the card be a friend

Think of your card as a helpful friend who whispers the next word. Looking at it is a normal and honest part of speaking, not a failure of memory.

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Smile at your card the next time you glance down.

Easy things to say

When you are stuck, pick one of these. They work in many everyday situations.

GLANCE

“Let me check my card.”

PAUSE

“A moment, please.”

NEXT

“Now to the next point.”

RECAP

“To recap the main idea.”

THANK

“Thanks for listening.”

CLOSE

“That is my last point.”

Your first week

One small action a day. Each day is only a little bigger than the last.

DAY 1
List key points

DAY 2
Use big writing

DAY 3
Keep few words

DAY 4
Number them

DAY 5
Practise glancing

DAY 6
Look up

DAY 7
Speak

Further reading

• Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway (Susan Jeffers)
• The Upside of Stress (Kelly McGonigal)
• The 5 Second Rule (Mel Robbins)

The tips above are written in our own words and are general guidance. The books are suggestions for further reading.

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