Confidence / Overcoming Nervousness / Lesson 30

LESSON 30 · OVERCOMING NERVOUSNESS

Before a Job Interview

Thirty easy ways to prepare for a job interview, so you feel calm and show your best self.

Prepared is confident. Be yourself, calmly.

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40 tips that really help

These ideas come from Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway (Susan Jeffers), The Upside of Stress (Kelly McGonigal), The 5 Second Rule (Mel Robbins), and everyday practice. Pick one tip and try it today.

TIP 1

Prepared is confident

A job interview is far less scary when you know your stories, your questions and your route. Preparation turns “What if?” into “I have thought about that”.

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Block two hours for focused interview preparation.

TIP 2

Research the company

Read the website, recent news and the job description. Knowing what they care about helps you answer relevantly.

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Write three facts about the company.

TIP 3

Study the job description

Underline the key skills and match each one to an example from your experience. This gives you a ready bank of answers.

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List five key requirements and your matching examples.

TIP 4

Know the role you want

Be clear why you want this job. A genuine, specific reason is persuasive.

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Write two sentences on why you want it.

TIP 5

Prepare the STAR method

Many interviewers like answers that follow Situation, Task, Action, Result. It keeps stories clear and concise.

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Write one STAR story for each key skill.

TIP 6

Prepare five stories

Five good stories about teamwork, problem-solving, challenge, leadership and learning cover most questions. Stories are easier to remember than facts.

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Choose your five stories.

TIP 7

Prepare "Tell me about yourself"

Aim for a one-minute summary: who you are, what you do well, and why you are here. Practise until it flows.

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Write and rehearse your minute.

TIP 8

Prepare your strengths

Choose two or three genuine strengths with evidence. Specific examples beat generic claims.

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Write each strength with an example.

TIP 9

Prepare an honest weakness

Choose a real, manageable weakness and show how you are working on it. Honesty plus improvement is respected.

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Write a weakness and your plan.

TIP 10

Prepare "Why should we hire you?"

Link your strengths to their needs. Keep it warm, not boastful.

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Write a three-sentence answer.

TIP 11

Prepare questions to ask

Having two or three thoughtful questions shows interest. Ask about the team, goals or training.

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Write three questions.

TIP 12

Prepare for salary talk

Research typical pay for the role and decide your range. Know your minimum.

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Look up salary data for the role.

TIP 13

Prepare for hard questions

Think of the questions you hope they will not ask, such as gaps or a short stay. Plan honest, calm answers.

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Write answers to your two toughest questions.

TIP 14

Practise aloud

Rehearse answers out loud, not in your head. Spoken practice shows where you stumble.

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Say your answers aloud three times.

TIP 15

Do a mock interview

Ask a friend or mentor to ask you questions. Real-time practice reduces fear.

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Schedule a mock interview.

TIP 16

Record yourself

Listen to your answers. Notice pace, fillers and strengths.

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Record and review one answer.

TIP 17

Plan your outfit

Choose clothes that are clean, comfortable and appropriate. Try them on in advance.

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Lay out your outfit two days before.

TIP 18

Plan your journey

Check the route, travel time and parking. Add a buffer.

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Do a trial run if possible.

TIP 19

Pack your bag

Bring copies of your CV, a notebook, a pen, ID and water. A neat bag signals organisation.

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Pack the night before.

TIP 20

Know the interviewers

If you know their names, look up their roles. It helps you build rapport.

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Note the names and roles.

TIP 21

Sleep well

A good night’s sleep helps recall and calm. Avoid late cramming.

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Aim for an early night.

TIP 22

Eat sensibly

Have a light, balanced meal before. Avoid heavy food and too much caffeine.

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Plan your meal.

TIP 23

Arrive early

Be in the area thirty minutes early and at reception about ten minutes early. It lets you settle.

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Aim to be ten minutes early at reception.

TIP 24

Breathe in the waiting room

Slow breaths before you walk in. Keep your phone away.

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Breathe slowly for two minutes.

TIP 25

Smile and greet warmly

A friendly greeting and a firm, brief handshake set a positive tone.

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Practise a warm hello.

TIP 26

Use eye contact

Look at the interviewer while they speak and as you answer, glancing away naturally. Eye contact conveys confidence.

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Practise with a friend.

TIP 27

Sit comfortably

Sit upright with your feet flat. A balanced posture helps breathing.

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Practise sitting well.

TIP 28

Keep your hands calm

Rest them on your lap or the table. Light gestures are fine.

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Avoid fidgeting with pens.

TIP 29

Listen to the question

Pause, check you have understood and then answer. It is fine to ask for clarification.

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Say, “Could I check I have understood?”

TIP 30

Take a moment to think

It is fine to say, “That is a good question, let me think.” Silence looks thoughtful.

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Practise a thinking pause.

TIP 31

Be concise

Aim for answers of about one to two minutes. Long answers lose attention.

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Time a practice answer.

TIP 32

Be honest

If you do not know something, say so and say how you would find out. Honesty builds trust.

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Practise saying “I do not know, but I would…”

TIP 33

Show enthusiasm

Let your interest show through your voice and smile. Employers like people who want the job.

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Say what excites you.

TIP 34

Ask your questions

At the end, ask your prepared questions. It shows engagement.

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Ask at least two.

TIP 35

Close well

Thank them and restate your interest. “I am very keen, thank you for your time” is a good ending.

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Prepare a closing line.

TIP 36

Send a thank-you note

A short email the same day thanks them and reinforces your interest. It sets you apart.

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Draft your thank-you in advance.

TIP 37

Review afterwards

Write what went well and what to improve. Each interview is practice.

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Make notes within an hour.

TIP 38

Be kind to yourself

Rejection is common and does not define you. Learn and carry on.

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Plan something kind for the evening.

TIP 39

Keep going

Many people attend several interviews before an offer. Persistence pays.

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Set a goal for your next application.

TIP 40

Treat it as a two-way conversation

An interview is also your chance to decide whether the job, the team and the manager suit you. Thinking “we are both checking fit” shifts you from being judged to being a participant, which lowers nerves.

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Write two things you want to learn about them, not just two things to prove.

Easy things to say

When you are stuck, pick one of these. They work in many everyday situations.

GREET

“Thank you for meeting me.”

STORY

“Let me give an example.”

ASK

“May I ask about the team?”

CHECK

“Does that answer your question?”

“I am excited about this role.”

THANK

“Thank you for your time.”

Your first week

One small action a day. Each day is only a little bigger than the last.

DAY 1
Research

DAY 2
Prepare stories

DAY 3
Practise answers

DAY 4
Plan questions

DAY 5
Prepare clothes

DAY 6
Arrive early

DAY 7
Breathe

More lessons in “Overcoming Nervousness”

Keep going. Small steps every day make a big change.

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