LESSON 30 · THE CONFIDENT SELLER
Set Goals You Can Actually Hit
Forty ways to set goals you can actually hit, and enjoy the steady confidence that comes from reaching them.
Clear goals create calm confidence. Small targets, hit often, change everything.
26 tipsEasy things to say7-day plan
26 tips that really help
These ideas come from The Psychology of Selling (Brian Tracy), Secrets of Closing the Sale (Zig Ziglar), To Sell Is Human (Daniel Pink), and everyday practice. The first six help the most. Pick one and try it today.
TIP 1
Why goals help
Research by Edwin Locke and Gary Latham found that specific, challenging goals lead to better performance than vague “do your best” goals.
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Write one specific goal for this week.
TIP 2
Make it specific
“Ten conversations by Friday” is better than “talk to more people”.
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Rewrite one vague goal as a number.
TIP 3
Make it measurable
If you can count it, you can see progress.
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Add a number to each goal.
TIP 4
Make it yours
Goals you choose feel more motivating than goals imposed on you.
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Write why this goal matters to you.
TIP 5
Make it realistic but stretching
Too easy bores, too hard discourages.
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Aim a little above last week.
TIP 6
Split big goals into steps
A mountain is climbed one step at a time.
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Write three steps toward one goal.
TIP 7
Separate activity and result goals
You control activity: calls, emails, visits. Results follow.
TIP 8
Start with daily activity goals
Small daily targets build habit and confidence.
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Set a number for tomorrow.
TIP 9
Use weekly goals too
They smooth out a bad day.
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Write a weekly total.
TIP 10
Use monthly goals
They keep the big picture in view.
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Write one monthly goal.
TIP 11
Write them down
Written goals are more likely to be pursued.
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Use paper or a note app.
TIP 12
Find an accountability partner
A weekly check-in helps both of you.
TIP 13
Celebrate small hits
Reward progress, not just the end.
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Plan a small treat.
TIP 14
Review each Friday
Look at what happened and why.
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Spend ten minutes.
TIP 15
Learn from misses
A miss shows what to adjust.
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Write one adjustment.
TIP 16
Adjust when needed
Goals can change when facts change.
TIP 17
Keep a "done" list
It helps you see all you have done.
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Write what you completed.
TIP 18
Avoid too many goals
Three focused goals beat ten fuzzy ones.
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Cut your list to three.
TIP 19
Schedule the work
Put goal tasks on the calendar.
TIP 20
Use if-then plans
Peter Gollwitzer’s research on implementation intentions found “if X, then I will Y” plans make follow-through more likely.
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Write one if-then plan.
TIP 21
Plan for obstacles
Think about what could get in the way and how you would respond.
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List two obstacles and replies.
TIP 22
Do not break the chain twice
Missing one day is fine. Missing two starts a habit of missing.
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Resume the next day.
TIP 23
Learn from top sellers' goals
Ask what targets they set.
TIP 24
Raise the bar gradually
Growth feels good when steady.
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Add a little each week.
TIP 25
Think in seasons
Some months are slower. Plan for them.
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Mark busy and quiet periods.
TIP 26
Start today
Goals begin with one decision.
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Write today’s goal now.
Easy things to say
When you are stuck, pick one of these. They work in many sales conversations.
GOAL
“My target for today is five conversations.”
PLAN
“Here are my three steps.”
REVIEW
“I hit three of four targets.”
ADJUST
“I will change one thing next week.”
PRIDE
“I am proud of staying on track.”
NEXT
“Tomorrow I will do it again.”
Your first week
One small action a day. Each day is only a little bigger than the last.
DAY 1
Write one weekly goal
DAY 2
Break it into daily steps
DAY 4
Share your goal with a friend
DAY 7
Set next week’s goal
Further reading
- The Psychology of Selling (Brian Tracy)
- Secrets of Closing the Sale (Zig Ziglar)
- To Sell Is Human (Daniel Pink)
The tips above are written in our own words and are general guidance. The books are suggestions for further reading.
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