LESSON 30 · THE CONFIDENT SELLER

Set Goals You Can Actually Hit

Forty ways to set goals you can actually hit, and enjoy the steady confidence that comes from reaching them.

Clear goals create calm confidence. Small targets, hit often, change everything.

26 tipsEasy things to say7-day plan

26 tips that really help

These ideas come from The Psychology of Selling (Brian Tracy), Secrets of Closing the Sale (Zig Ziglar), To Sell Is Human (Daniel Pink), and everyday practice. The first six help the most. Pick one and try it today.

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TIP 1

Why goals help

Research by Edwin Locke and Gary Latham found that specific, challenging goals lead to better performance than vague “do your best” goals.

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Write one specific goal for this week.
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TIP 2

Make it specific

“Ten conversations by Friday” is better than “talk to more people”.

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Rewrite one vague goal as a number.
Photo for the tip: Make it measurable
TIP 3

Make it measurable

If you can count it, you can see progress.

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Add a number to each goal.
Photo for the tip: Make it yours
TIP 4

Make it yours

Goals you choose feel more motivating than goals imposed on you.

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Write why this goal matters to you.
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TIP 5

Make it realistic but stretching

Too easy bores, too hard discourages.

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Aim a little above last week.
Photo for the tip: Split big goals into steps
TIP 6

Split big goals into steps

A mountain is climbed one step at a time.

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Write three steps toward one goal.
Photo for the tip: Separate activity and result goals
TIP 7

Separate activity and result goals

You control activity: calls, emails, visits. Results follow.

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Set one of each.
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Start with daily activity goals

Small daily targets build habit and confidence.

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Set a number for tomorrow.
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TIP 9

Use weekly goals too

They smooth out a bad day.

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Write a weekly total.
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TIP 10

Use monthly goals

They keep the big picture in view.

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Write one monthly goal.
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TIP 11

Write them down

Written goals are more likely to be pursued.

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Use paper or a note app.
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TIP 12

Find an accountability partner

A weekly check-in helps both of you.

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Ask a colleague.
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TIP 13

Celebrate small hits

Reward progress, not just the end.

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Plan a small treat.
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TIP 14

Review each Friday

Look at what happened and why.

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Spend ten minutes.
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TIP 15

Learn from misses

A miss shows what to adjust.

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Write one adjustment.
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TIP 16

Adjust when needed

Goals can change when facts change.

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Update a goal.
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TIP 17

Keep a "done" list

It helps you see all you have done.

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Write what you completed.
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Avoid too many goals

Three focused goals beat ten fuzzy ones.

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Cut your list to three.
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Schedule the work

Put goal tasks on the calendar.

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Block a time.
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Use if-then plans

Peter Gollwitzer’s research on implementation intentions found “if X, then I will Y” plans make follow-through more likely.

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Write one if-then plan.
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Plan for obstacles

Think about what could get in the way and how you would respond.

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List two obstacles and replies.
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Do not break the chain twice

Missing one day is fine. Missing two starts a habit of missing.

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Resume the next day.
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TIP 23

Learn from top sellers' goals

Ask what targets they set.

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Ask one veteran.
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TIP 24

Raise the bar gradually

Growth feels good when steady.

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Add a little each week.
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TIP 25

Think in seasons

Some months are slower. Plan for them.

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Mark busy and quiet periods.
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TIP 26

Start today

Goals begin with one decision.

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Write today’s goal now.

Easy things to say

When you are stuck, pick one of these. They work in many sales conversations.

GOAL

“My target for today is five conversations.”

PLAN

“Here are my three steps.”

REVIEW

“I hit three of four targets.”

ADJUST

“I will change one thing next week.”

PRIDE

“I am proud of staying on track.”

NEXT

“Tomorrow I will do it again.”

Your first week

One small action a day. Each day is only a little bigger than the last.

DAY 1
Write one weekly goal
DAY 2
Break it into daily steps
DAY 3
Track your numbers
DAY 4
Share your goal with a friend
DAY 5
Review on Friday
DAY 6
Reward progress
DAY 7
Set next week’s goal

Further reading

  • The Psychology of Selling (Brian Tracy)
  • Secrets of Closing the Sale (Zig Ziglar)
  • To Sell Is Human (Daniel Pink)

The tips above are written in our own words and are general guidance. The books are suggestions for further reading.

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  24. See Your Customer as a Real Person
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