LESSON 34 · THE CONFIDENT SELLER

Say Your Wins Out Loud

Forty ways to say your wins out loud with warmth and honesty, so you feel proud and others learn from you.

Wins deserve to be said, not hidden. Sharing success is a gift to your team.

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28 tips that really help

These ideas come from The Psychology of Selling (Brian Tracy), Secrets of Closing the Sale (Zig Ziglar), To Sell Is Human (Daniel Pink), and everyday practice. The first six help the most. Pick one and try it today.

Photo for the tip: Say it aloud
TIP 1

Say it aloud

Spoken words register more strongly than silent thoughts. Saying a win aloud helps you believe it.

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Say one win aloud right now.
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TIP 2

Start with a mirror

If sharing feels strange, say it to yourself first.

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Say “I did well today” in the mirror.
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TIP 3

Tell a friend

Sharing with someone who cares doubles the joy.

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Text one win to a friend.
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TIP 4

Tell your team

Wins build team energy and teach others what works.

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Post one win in your team chat.
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TIP 5

Tell your manager

Managers cannot see everything you do.

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Share one win in your next one-to-one.
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TIP 6

Tell your family

They want to share your pride.

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Mention one win at dinner.
Photo for the tip: Share the lesson inside the win
TIP 7

Share the lesson inside the win

“Here is what I tried” turns pride into teaching.

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Add one lesson to your next win.
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TIP 8

Credit others honestly

Naming help makes your win warmer and truer.

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Thank a colleague in your update.
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TIP 9

Be specific

“I booked a meeting by asking about their goals” is better than “I did well”.

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Add one detail.
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TIP 10

Use numbers where you can

Facts keep it modest and clear.

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Add a figure.
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TIP 11

Avoid bragging tone

Let facts and gratitude carry the message.

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Replace one boast with a fact.
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TIP 12

Avoid false modesty

“It was nothing” erases your effort.

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Say “Thank you” when praised.
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TIP 13

Accept compliments

Smile and say thank you.

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Practise a simple reply.
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TIP 14

Celebrate small wins

A good question or a calm call counts.

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Share a small one today.
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TIP 15

Celebrate effort

Calls made and follow-ups sent deserve a word.

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Mention effort too.
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TIP 16

Celebrate learning wins

Learning from a no is a win.

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Share one lesson.
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TIP 17

Make a wins board

A visible board feels good.

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Create a simple one.
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TIP 18

Share wins on LinkedIn carefully

Focus on lessons and gratitude.

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Draft one post.
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TIP 19

Share customer wins

Their success is your proof.

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Ask permission to share one.
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TIP 20

Start meetings with a win round

Positive starts help the room.

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Suggest it to your team.
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TIP 21

End your week with a win

It sets a good weekend.

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Write Friday’s win.
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TIP 22

Share wins with your mentor

It gives them joy and you feedback.

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Send an update.
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TIP 23

Avoid hiding wins out of fear

Others usually cheer you on.

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Share one today.
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TIP 24

Handle envy kindly

If someone seems cold, stay gracious.

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Keep sharing wisely.
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TIP 25

Choose your audience

Share where it is welcome.

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Pick the right people.
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TIP 26

Time it well

Not in the middle of someone’s hard moment.

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Read the room.
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TIP 27

Keep it short

A sentence or two is enough.

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Trim your story.
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TIP 28

Say it with energy

Let your voice show you care.

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Smile as you speak.

Easy things to say

When you are stuck, pick one of these. They work in many sales conversations.

SHARE

“I had a good call today and I want to tell you why.”

HUMBLE

“I had help from the team on this one.”

LEARN

“Here is what worked, in case it helps you.”

THANKS

“Thank you for the coaching, it made a difference.”

PROUD

“I am proud of how I handled that.”

ASK

“Has anything worked well for you lately?”

Your first week

One small action a day. Each day is only a little bigger than the last.

DAY 1
Say one win out loud
DAY 2
Share a win with your team
DAY 3
Thank someone in your win
DAY 4
Write the lesson from a win
DAY 5
Congratulate someone else
DAY 6
Share a win with family
DAY 7
Keep a wins list

Further reading

  • The Psychology of Selling (Brian Tracy)
  • Secrets of Closing the Sale (Zig Ziglar)
  • To Sell Is Human (Daniel Pink)

The tips above are written in our own words and are general guidance. The books are suggestions for further reading.

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  3. Believe in What You Sell
  4. Silence Your Inner Critic
  5. Your First 90 Seconds of Courage
  6. Borrow Confidence You Do Not Feel Yet
  7. Celebrate the Small Win Every Day
  8. Why "No" Is Not About You
  9. The Rejection Reset in 60 Seconds
  10. Turn Every No Into a Lesson
  11. Ask for Feedback Without Fear
  12. The Numbers Game Made Simple
  13. Bounce Back After a Bad Call
  14. Why Great Sellers Hear Thousands of Noes
  15. Breathe Away Pre-Call Panic
  16. Your Pre-Meeting Ritual
  17. Stand Like Someone Worth Hearing
  18. The Power Pose Myth and What Really Helps
  19. Sound Calm When You Feel Shaky
  20. What to Do When Your Mind Goes Blank
  21. Speak Slower, Sell Better
  22. Sell to Serve, Not to Impress
  23. The Giver's Edge
  24. See Your Customer as a Real Person
  25. Your Job Is to Solve, Not to Push
  26. Be Proud of the Value You Bring
  27. Lead With Honesty Every Time
  28. The Quiet Power of Integrity
  29. Start Your Day Like a Pro
  30. Set Goals You Can Actually Hit
  31. The Two-Minute Daily Review
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  35. Survive Your First Sales Slump
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  40. Become the Seller You Admire
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