LESSON 03 · TELL STORIES THAT SELL

Make the Customer the Hero

Practical ways to make the customer the hero of your story, with you as the wise guide who helps them win.

Customers love being the hero. Be the guide, not the star.

11 tipsEasy things to say7-day plan

11 tips that really help

These ideas come from Building a StoryBrand (Donald Miller), Pitch Anything (Oren Klaff), Made to Stick (Chip Heath and Dan Heath), and everyday practice. The first six help the most. Pick one and try it today.

Photo for the tip: Customers love to see themselves in the story
TIP 1

Customers love to see themselves in the story

When the customer is the hero and you are the guide, listeners picture their own success.

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Rewrite one story this way.
Photo for the tip: Place the customer at the centre
TIP 2

Place the customer at the centre

Describe their goals, fears and choices first, and your product second.

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Start the story with their name or role.
Photo for the tip: You are the guide not the hero
TIP 3

You are the guide not the hero

A good guide gives a plan and support, while the hero makes the brave choices.

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Describe your role in one line.
Photo for the tip: Show their courage
TIP 4

Show their courage

Highlight the decision they made to try something new, because that is what the listener must also do.

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Mention the moment they decided.
Photo for the tip: Let them speak in the story
TIP 5

Let them speak in the story

A short quote from the customer adds authenticity and shifts the spotlight to them.

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Add one real line.
Photo for the tip: Describe the change in them
TIP 6

Describe the change in them

Show how they felt before and after, not only what happened to the numbers.

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Add a feeling word.
Photo for the tip: Give them the credit
TIP 7

Give them the credit

Say they did the hard work and you supported, which makes the story humble and credible.

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Use their name in the win.
Photo for the tip: Use before-and-after contrast
TIP 8

Use before-and-after contrast

Showing life before and after your help makes the improvement obvious.

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Write two sentences for each.
Photo for the tip: Match the hero to your listener
TIP 9

Match the hero to your listener

Choose a customer similar to the person you are speaking with so they relate quickly.

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Pick the closest example.
Photo for the tip: Get permission to share
TIP 10

Get permission to share

Always ask before telling a real customer story, or change identifying details.

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Send a short request.
Photo for the tip: Avoid bragging
TIP 11

Avoid bragging

Keep the tone grateful and factual so the story builds trust rather than ego.

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Check your wording.

Easy things to say

When you are stuck, pick one of these. They work in many sales conversations.

HERO

“You are the person who keeps this shop running.”

GUIDE

“I have helped many owners in your position.”

PLAN

“Here is a simple three-step plan.”

CALL

“Would you like to try the first step?”

WIN

“Imagine what it would be like when it is done.”

THANKS

“Thank you for letting me help.”

Your first week

One small action a day. Each day is only a little bigger than the last.

DAY 1
Write your customer as the hero in one sentence
DAY 2
Describe their problem in their words
DAY 3
Define your role as guide
DAY 4
Offer a clear plan
DAY 5
Add a call to action
DAY 6
Show the success
DAY 7
Test it on a customer

Further reading

  • Building a StoryBrand (Donald Miller)
  • Pitch Anything (Oren Klaff)
  • Made to Stick (Chip Heath and Dan Heath)

The tips above are written in our own words and are general guidance. The books are suggestions for further reading.

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  1. Why Stories Beat Statistics
  2. The Simple Story Shape: Problem, Struggle, Win
  3. Make the Customer the Hero
  4. Find Stories in Your Everyday Work
  5. Keep It Short, Keep It Real
  6. Add One Vivid Detail
  7. End Every Story With a Point
  8. Collect Stories While They Are Fresh
  9. The Before, During and After Story
  10. Use Real Numbers Honestly
  11. Tell a Story Like Your Customer Would
  12. Match the Story to the Buyer
  13. Case Studies People Actually Read
  14. Ask for Testimonials Without Awkwardness
  15. Your Ten-Second Introduction
  16. The One-Sentence Pitch
  17. Cut the Jargon
  18. Lead With the Problem You Solve
  19. Make the Benefit Obvious
  20. Use Simple Words and Short Sentences
  21. The Message Test: Can They Repeat It?
  22. Open With a Hook
  23. The Three-Point Presentation
  24. Slides That Support, Not Distract
  25. Demo the Result, Not the Features
  26. Use Pauses Like a Pro
  27. Handle Questions Mid-Presentation
  28. Close Your Presentation Strongly
  29. Hold the Room Without Shouting
  30. Use Your Hands and Eyes
  31. Control Your Pace Under Pressure
  32. Recover From a Slip
  33. Pitch to One Person or Twenty
  34. Pitch Over Video With Energy
  35. A One-Page Proposal That Wins
  36. Open With Their Problem, Not Your Company
  37. Show Options: Good, Better, Best
  38. Make Pricing Easy to Understand
  39. Add a Clear Next Step
  40. Proofread Like a Professional
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