LESSON 02 · FINDING THE JOB YOU WANT
Describe Your Ideal Job
Eighteen easy tips to describe your ideal job, so you know what you are aiming for.
Picture the job. A clear target helps.
27 tipsEasy things to say7-day plan
27 tips that really help
These ideas come from What Color Is Your Parachute? (Richard Bolles), Designing Your Life (Bill Burnett and Dave Evans), The 2-Hour Job Search (Steve Dalton), and everyday practice. Pick one tip and try it today.
TIP 1
Why describe it
A clear picture helps you say yes to the right jobs and no to the wrong ones. It also helps people help you.
TIP 2
Picture a good day
Imagine a normal day in your dream job. What do you do hour by hour?
TIP 3
Describe the tasks
List the tasks you want to do often. Tasks shape your daily life.
TIP 4
Describe the people
Write what kind of team, boss and customers you want. People make the job.
TIP 5
Describe the place
Office, home or mixed? City or town? Place changes your life.
TIP 6
Describe the pay and hours
Be honest about money and time needs. Good limits protect you.
TIP 7
Describe how you want to grow
Think of skills you want to learn. Growth keeps work alive.
TIP 8
Write one page
Put everything on one page. A page keeps your focus clear.
TIP 9
Script: describing
I want a role where I help people and learn every month. Say it clearly.
TIP 10
Script: values
I care about kind teams and honest leaders. Say it warmly.
TIP 11
Script: needs
I need flexible hours and fair pay. Say it calmly.
TIP 12
Mistake: chasing only a title
A title alone may not fit your life, so look deeper.
TIP 13
Mistake: ignoring daily tasks
Tasks decide your mood, so check them.
TIP 14
Mistake: aiming at a job you do not know
Learn what it really involves, so research.
TIP 15
Troubleshoot: when you have many ideas
Rank them by joy, pay and fit. Choose the top two.
TIP 16
Troubleshoot: when you cannot decide
Try a short project or talk to people in those jobs. Learn by doing.
TIP 17
Drill: write your ideal day
Write a half-page about your best working day.
TIP 18
Drill: list five must-haves
List five things your next job must have and three it must not.
TIP 19
Describe the boss you want
Write how you want your manager to treat you, such as kind, clear and fair. Culture matters daily.
TRY THIS
Write five traits.
TIP 20
Describe the pace you like
Some people love fast work and others prefer steady work. Know your pace.
TRY THIS
Choose your pace.
TIP 21
Describe the learning you want
List skills you hope to learn in the next two years. Growth keeps work alive.
TRY THIS
List three skills.
TIP 22
Describe your ideal week
Write what a calm week looks like, including hours, breaks and travel. It shows what you need.
TIP 23
Example: the parent who needs flexibility
Jo wanted school-hour work, so she looked for part-time remote jobs and found one.
TIP 24
Example: the creator who needs freedom
Lee wanted creative control, so he searched for small studios, not big firms.
TIP 25
Mistake: copying a friend’s dream job
Their dream may not fit your life. Listen to your own wishes.
TRY THIS
Ask what you want.
TIP 26
Troubleshoot: when your ideal job does not exist
Break it into parts and find roles that hold most of them. Create a mix.
TRY THIS
Pick three must-haves.
TIP 27
Drill: write a job ad for yourself
Imagine the perfect job post and write it in half a page.
Easy things to say
When you are stuck, pick one of these. They work in many networking and career moments.
DREAM
“I would like a role like this.”
DAY
“A good day looks like this.”
PEOPLE
“I like working with these people.”
Your first week
One small action a day. Each day is only a little bigger than the last.
Further reading
- What Color Is Your Parachute? (Richard Bolles)
- Designing Your Life (Bill Burnett and Dave Evans)
- The 2-Hour Job Search (Steve Dalton)
The tips above are written in our own words and are general guidance. The books are suggestions for further reading.
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