LESSON 01 · FINDING THE JOB YOU WANT
Find Your Strengths and Interests
Eighteen easy tips to find your strengths and interests, so your job search starts with who you really are.
Start with you. Strengths point the way.
27 tipsEasy things to say7-day plan
27 tips that really help
These ideas come from What Color Is Your Parachute? (Richard Bolles), Designing Your Life (Bill Burnett and Dave Evans), The 2-Hour Job Search (Steve Dalton), and everyday practice. Pick one tip and try it today.
TIP 1
Why start with you
A job search works best when you know what you do well and enjoy. Strengths lead to better jobs and happier days.
TIP 2
List what you do well
Write ten things you do well, big or small. Include skills and kind habits.
TIP 3
List what gives you energy
Notice tasks where time flies. Joy is a clue to your best work.
TIP 4
Ask three people
Ask friends or colleagues what you are great at. Others see strengths you miss.
TIP 5
Look at past wins
Think of times you felt proud. Patterns will show your strengths.
TRY THIS
Write three wins.
TIP 6
Check your values
Think about what you care about, such as helping, learning or creating. Values guide good choices.
TRY THIS
Name three values.
TIP 7
Notice what you dislike
Knowing what drains you helps you avoid the wrong jobs.
TRY THIS
List three drains.
TIP 8
Use a free strengths test
Free quizzes can spark ideas. Treat results as hints, not rules.
TIP 9
Script: strength
I am good at explaining things simply. Say it with confidence.
TIP 10
Script: joy
I feel most alive when I help people learn. Say it warmly.
TIP 11
Script: ask
What do you think I am especially good at? Say it kindly.
TIP 12
Mistake: copying someone else’s path
Their dream may not fit, so listen to your own.
TIP 13
Mistake: ignoring what you enjoy
Joy matters for long careers, so give it weight.
TIP 14
Mistake: underrating soft skills
Listening, kindness and reliability matter, so include them.
TIP 15
Troubleshoot: when you do not know your strengths
Ask people who know you well and read your old feedback.
TIP 16
Troubleshoot: when you feel stuck
Try a small project or volunteer task to learn what you enjoy.
TIP 17
Drill: write your top five strengths
Write your five main strengths and one example of each.
TIP 18
Drill: ask two friends today
Message two friends and ask what they think you do best.
TIP 19
Look at what friends ask you to do
Friends often ask for help in areas you do well. Their requests point to your real strengths.
TRY THIS
Write three requests.
TIP 20
Notice what you do without being asked
Habits you follow in free time show real interests. Write what you do on rainy Sundays.
TRY THIS
List your habits.
TIP 21
Separate what you can do from what you love
You may be good at tasks you dislike. Aim for work where skill and joy overlap.
TRY THIS
Draw two circles.
TIP 22
Collect praise you have received
Save kind messages and reviews from the past. They name your strengths in other people’s words.
TRY THIS
Gather five notes.
TIP 23
Example: the teacher who loved data
Kia loved patterns in student results. She moved into education data work and felt alive.
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Look for your pattern.
TIP 24
Example: the cashier who loved people
Omar loved helping shoppers. He moved into customer care and grew quickly.
TIP 25
Mistake: choosing a job only for status
A glamorous title with tasks you hate leads to misery, so check the daily work.
TRY THIS
Read daily tasks.
TIP 26
Troubleshoot: when interests keep changing
Look for the theme behind them, like helping, building or learning. The theme stays.
TIP 27
Drill: write your strengths on one page
Write ten strengths and one example each. Keep the page for your CV.
Easy things to say
When you are stuck, pick one of these. They work in many networking and career moments.
PROOF
“I did this well last year.”
CLOSE
“Now I know my direction.”
Your first week
One small action a day. Each day is only a little bigger than the last.
Further reading
- What Color Is Your Parachute? (Richard Bolles)
- Designing Your Life (Bill Burnett and Dave Evans)
- The 2-Hour Job Search (Steve Dalton)
The tips above are written in our own words and are general guidance. The books are suggestions for further reading.
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