LESSON 04 · GIVING BEFORE ASKING
Share Useful Information
Eighteen easy tips to share useful information, so you become a trusted source of good ideas.
A good link is a gift. Share with care.
26 tipsEasy things to say7-day plan
26 tips that really help
These ideas come from Give and Take (Adam Grant), The Go-Giver (Bob Burg and John David Mann), Never Eat Alone (Keith Ferrazzi), and everyday practice. Pick one tip and try it today.
TIP 1
Why sharing helps
A useful link or tip shows you listened and care. It makes people think of you when they need help.
TIP 2
Read and listen widely
The more you learn, the more you can share. A little daily reading goes far.
TRY THIS
Read ten minutes.
TIP 3
Save things you find useful
Use a notes app or folder for good articles, tools and tips. You will share with ease.
TIP 4
Match the info to a person
Think of who might like it. A well-chosen link feels like a gift.
TRY THIS
Think of one person.
TIP 5
Add a short personal note
Say, this made me think of your project. A line of care makes the link meaningful.
TIP 6
Keep messages short
Busy people prefer quick, clear notes. One link and one sentence is enough.
TIP 7
Share good news too
Pass on praise or opportunities. Good news spreads warmth.
TIP 8
Ask if it was useful
Gently ask if the info helped. It starts a conversation.
TIP 9
Script: sharing a link
I read this and thought of you, I hope it helps. Say it warmly.
TIP 10
Script: summary
Here is the main point in one line, in case you are short on time. Say it kindly.
TIP 11
Script: follow up
Was that article useful? Happy to share more if you would like. Say it lightly.
TIP 12
Mistake: sharing without reading
Bad links hurt trust, so check before sending.
TIP 13
Mistake: sending too much
Piles of links overwhelm, so choose one best.
TIP 14
Mistake: sharing private information
Never share what is secret, so stay respectful.
TIP 15
Troubleshoot: when they never respond
Do not take it personally, because they may be busy. Keep sharing lightly.
TIP 16
Troubleshoot: when you cannot find good things
Ask others what they read or follow trusted sources. Good ideas are close.
TIP 17
Drill: send one useful link today
Choose someone and send them one helpful link with a short note.
TIP 18
Drill: build a sharing list
Write the names of five people and one topic each cares about.
TIP 19
Keep sources reliable
Share from trusted sources. Good sources protect your name.
TRY THIS
Check the source.
TIP 20
Share with a summary
Add one line that says what the item teaches. It saves time.
TIP 21
Share a book or tool you love
Personal picks feel warm. Tell why you like it.
TIP 22
Save time with a reading folder
Save links in one place. Look at them weekly.
TIP 23
Example: the weekly email
Ana sent one helpful link each Friday. Her readers waited for it.
TIP 24
Example: the quick tip
Ben texted a friend a trick for a spreadsheet. She replied with heart emojis.
TRY THIS
Send a quick tip.
TIP 25
Mistake: sharing news that scares
Fear-based stories upset people. Share helpful, calm items.
TRY THIS
Choose calm items.
TIP 26
Troubleshoot: when someone does not read
Do not worry. Give once and let it go.
Easy things to say
When you are stuck, pick one of these. They work in many networking and career moments.
SHARE
“I found this and thought of you.”
WHY
“It may help with your project.”
SHORT
“Here is a short summary.”
CLOSE
“Happy to share anytime.”
Your first week
One small action a day. Each day is only a little bigger than the last.
Further reading
- Give and Take (Adam Grant)
- The Go-Giver (Bob Burg and John David Mann)
- Never Eat Alone (Keith Ferrazzi)
The tips above are written in our own words and are general guidance. The books are suggestions for further reading.
Keep your place and keep growing
Create a free account to save your progress and pick up the next lesson where you stopped. No card needed.
Start freeThese lessons share general learning and everyday ideas. They are not medical or mental health advice. If you feel very anxious, low or unwell, please talk to a doctor or a qualified professional.