Too Expensive: What They Really Mean
Practical ways to understand what “too expensive” really means, so you respond to the concern, not the words.
“Too expensive” is rarely the whole story. Find out what is behind it.
10 tips that really help
These ideas come from Objections (Jeb Blount), Never Split the Difference (Chris Voss), The Sandler Rules (David Mattson), and everyday practice. The first six help the most. Pick one and try it today.
Too expensive rarely means only price
It can signal doubt about value, fear of risk or a tight budget at this moment.
Ask what they compared it to.
Ask what they expected
Learning the number in their mind shows whether the gap is small or large.
Say what range did you have in mind?
Check whether they see the value
If benefits are unclear, any price feels high, so revisit results and outcomes.
Restate the main gain.
Look for a budget limit
Sometimes the money truly is not there, and a smaller option can help.
Offer a phased version.
Explore the cost of the problem
Show what the current situation costs them each month.
Ask for rough figures.
Do not discount immediately
Dropping your price at once teaches customers that your price is soft.
Explore first.
Offer different packages
Giving choices lets them find something that fits their means.
Prepare three levels.
Acknowledge their concern
Saying I understand that this is a real investment shows respect.
Be sincere.
Share how others justified it
Stories of customers who found value at this price can reassure.
Prepare examples.
Stay calm and confident
Your steadiness communicates that the price is fair.
Hold your tone.
Easy things to say
When you are stuck, pick one of these. They work in many sales conversations.
“Compared to what?”
“What would make it worth it?”
“What range had you planned?”
“Is it the price or the return?”
“Let me show the value in numbers.”
“Thank you for being open.”
Your first week
One small action a day. Each day is only a little bigger than the last.
List what it might mean
Ask “Compared to what?”
Ask about budget
Ask about value
Offer options
Show return
Review
Further reading
- Objections (Jeb Blount)
- Never Split the Difference (Chris Voss)
- The Sandler Rules (David Mattson)
The tips above are written in our own words and are general guidance. The books are suggestions for further reading.
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- An Objection Is Interest in Disguise
- The Four Real Reasons for Every Objection
- Stay Calm When They Push Back
- Do Not Argue, Do Not Defend
- Pause Before You Answer
- Know the Top Ten Objections Before You Hear Them
- Write Your Own Objection Playbook
- Too Expensive: What They Really Mean
- Compared to What?
- Show the Cost of Doing Nothing
- Break the Price Into Small Pieces
- Explain Value Before Price
- Handle "Your Competitor Is Cheaper"
- When to Say "We Are Not the Cheapest"
- I Need to Think About It
- It Is Not the Right Time
- Call Me Next Month
- Just Send Me Something
- I Need to Talk to My Partner
- Create Honest Reasons to Act Now
- Follow Up Without Nagging
- We Have Had a Bad Experience Before
- I Am Not Sure It Will Work for Us
- We Already Use Someone Else
- We Are Happy With What We Have
- Reduce Risk With Proof
- Offer a Trial, a Pilot or a Guarantee
- Let Customers Reassure Customers
- Feel, Felt, Found Done Right
- Acknowledge, Ask, Answer
- Use "Help Me Understand"
- Reframe the Concern Kindly
- Turn the Objection Into a Question
- Know When to Stay Silent
- Spot a Real No
- Leave the Door Open
- Ask What Would Change Their Mind
- Learn From Every Lost Deal
- Stay in Touch With Lost Leads
- Come Back Later With a Fresh Reason
