LESSON 09 · TURN “NO” INTO “NOT YET”

Compared to What?

Practical ways to use “Compared to what?”, the question that brings hidden comparisons into the open.

Price is relative. Find out the comparison.

10 tipsEasy things to say7-day plan

10 tips that really help

These ideas come from Objections (Jeb Blount), Never Split the Difference (Chris Voss), The Sandler Rules (David Mattson), and everyday practice. The first six help the most. Pick one and try it today.

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TIP 1

Compared to what?

This question helps you understand what the customer is measuring your price against.

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Ask it kindly.
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TIP 2

It reveals their reference point

They may be comparing to a competitor, a past price or a hope.

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Listen closely.
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TIP 3

It invites them to explain

People often realise their comparison is incomplete once they say it aloud.

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Wait for the answer.
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TIP 4

Clarify the comparison

Make sure the other option really includes the same results and support.

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Compare like for like.
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TIP 5

Show what differs

Explain the extras, quality or service that justify a difference.

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List three differences.
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TIP 6

Avoid criticising competitors

Focus on your strengths and the value you give.

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Stay respectful.
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TIP 7

Compare to the cost of doing nothing

Sometimes the right comparison is the problem itself.

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Estimate that cost.
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TIP 8

Compare long-term costs

A cheaper option may cost more in repairs or lost time.

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Show a simple calculation.
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TIP 9

Use a table if helpful

A visual comparison can clarify quickly.

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Prepare one.
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TIP 10

Let them decide

After clarifying, give them room to weigh.

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Stay patient.

Easy things to say

When you are stuck, pick one of these. They work in many sales conversations.

ASK

“Compared to what?”

SOFT

“May I ask what you are comparing it with?”

CHECK

“Is that for the same scope?”

EXPLAIN

“Here is how ours differs.”

VALUE

“Let us compare the whole picture.”

THANKS

“Thank you.”

Your first week

One small action a day. Each day is only a little bigger than the last.

DAY 1
Ask the question calmly
DAY 2
Listen to the comparison
DAY 3
Check whether it is like for like
DAY 4
Explain differences clearly
DAY 5
Show total cost
DAY 6
Avoid bashing
DAY 7
Review

Further reading

  • Objections (Jeb Blount)
  • Never Split the Difference (Chris Voss)
  • The Sandler Rules (David Mattson)

The tips above are written in our own words and are general guidance. The books are suggestions for further reading.

More lessons in “Turn "No" Into "Not Yet"”

Keep going. Small steps every day make a big change.

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  1. An Objection Is Interest in Disguise
  2. The Four Real Reasons for Every Objection
  3. Stay Calm When They Push Back
  4. Do Not Argue, Do Not Defend
  5. Pause Before You Answer
  6. Know the Top Ten Objections Before You Hear Them
  7. Write Your Own Objection Playbook
  8. Too Expensive: What They Really Mean
  9. Compared to What?
  10. Show the Cost of Doing Nothing
  11. Break the Price Into Small Pieces
  12. Explain Value Before Price
  13. Handle "Your Competitor Is Cheaper"
  14. When to Say "We Are Not the Cheapest"
  15. I Need to Think About It
  16. It Is Not the Right Time
  17. Call Me Next Month
  18. Just Send Me Something
  19. I Need to Talk to My Partner
  20. Create Honest Reasons to Act Now
  21. Follow Up Without Nagging
  22. We Have Had a Bad Experience Before
  23. I Am Not Sure It Will Work for Us
  24. We Already Use Someone Else
  25. We Are Happy With What We Have
  26. Reduce Risk With Proof
  27. Offer a Trial, a Pilot or a Guarantee
  28. Let Customers Reassure Customers
  29. Feel, Felt, Found Done Right
  30. Acknowledge, Ask, Answer
  31. Use "Help Me Understand"
  32. Reframe the Concern Kindly
  33. Turn the Objection Into a Question
  34. Know When to Stay Silent
  35. Spot a Real No
  36. Leave the Door Open
  37. Ask What Would Change Their Mind
  38. Learn From Every Lost Deal
  39. Stay in Touch With Lost Leads
  40. Come Back Later With a Fresh Reason
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