Sales Skills / Ask Better Questions, Sell More / Lesson 37

LESSON 37 · ASK BETTER QUESTIONS, SELL MORE

Questions for a Group Meeting

Practical ways to ask good questions in a group meeting, where many voices and priorities share one table.

Groups need structure. Include everyone and learn from each voice.

12 tipsEasy things to say7-day plan

Start with tip 1

Jump to the 7-day plan

12 tips that really help

These ideas come from SPIN Selling (Neil Rackham), Gap Selling (Keenan), The Sandler Rules (David Mattson), and everyday practice. The first six help the most. Pick one and try it today.

TIP 1

Prepare for each role

Different people care about different things.

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List roles and their likely concerns.

TIP 2

Greet everyone by name

It makes each person feel included.

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Learn names beforehand.

TIP 3

Ask every person at least one question

Quiet people often hold key views.

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Plan an order.

TIP 4

Start with the most senior person carefully

Respect hierarchy but avoid letting them dominate.

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Ask open questions to all.

TIP 5

Invite the quiet person gently

“Sam, what is your view?”

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Use their name.

TIP 6

Ask about priorities

Listen for conflicts between people.

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Ask “What matters most?”

TIP 7

Name differences calmly

“I hear two views” invites discussion.

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Say it neutrally.

TIP 8

Park side topics

Keep to the main aims.

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Use a parking list.

TIP 9

Use a whiteboard

Visual notes help the group.

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Capture key points.

TIP 10

Summarise the group view

It shows you heard everyone.

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Recap every fifteen minutes.

TIP 11

Handle dominant voices kindly

Thank them and turn to others.

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Say “Let me hear from others too”.

TIP 12

Offer a next step for each person

Everyone leaves with a role.

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Assign one each.

Easy things to say

When you are stuck, pick one of these. They work in many sales conversations.

OPEN

“Before we start, may I ask each of you one question?”

INCLUDE

“Maria, what matters most to you here?”

COMPARE

“I hear two different priorities. Could we talk about both?”

CHECK

“Have I captured everyone’s view?”

PARK

“May we note that and come back to it?”

THANKS

“Thank you all for your input.”

Your first week

One small action a day. Each day is only a little bigger than the last.

DAY 1
Prepare a question for each role

DAY 2
Ask everyone by name

DAY 3
Listen for differences

DAY 4
Note who agrees and who does not

DAY 5
Summarise the group view

DAY 6
Offer a next step for each person

DAY 7
Send a recap to all

Further reading

• SPIN Selling (Neil Rackham)
• Gap Selling (Keenan)
• The Sandler Rules (David Mattson)

The tips above are written in our own words and are general guidance. The books are suggestions for further reading.

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