These ideas come from Influence (Robert Cialdini), Pre-Suasion (Robert Cialdini), Thinking, Fast and Slow (Daniel Kahneman), and everyday practice. The first six help the most. Pick one and try it today.
TIP 1
Teams decide differently from individuals
Group buying involves more voices, more checks and a slower process.
TRY THIS Understand the roles.
TIP 2
Identify all stakeholders
Learn who influences, approves and uses the product.
TRY THIS Ask for names.
TIP 3
Address each person's needs
Different roles care about cost, ease, risk or results.
TRY THIS Prepare separate briefs.
TIP 4
Support your champion
Give them materials they can share internally.
TRY THIS Help them present.
TIP 5
Allow time for consensus
Do not rush a group, since agreement takes longer.
TRY THIS Plan a longer cycle.
TIP 6
Offer a group presentation
Meeting everyone together saves repeating yourself.
TRY THIS Schedule it.
TIP 7
Handle conflict calmly
If views differ, stay neutral and help find common ground.
TRY THIS Listen to all sides.
TIP 8
For solo buyers, be direct
Individuals can decide quickly and appreciate efficiency.
TRY THIS Adapt your style.
TIP 9
Clarify who signs
Know the final authority to avoid delay.
TRY THIS Confirm early.
TIP 10
Keep a record of who said what
Notes on each person’s concerns help later.
TRY THIS Update after each meeting.
Easy things to say
When you are stuck, pick one of these. They work in many sales conversations.
TEAM
“Who else will use this?”
ALONE
“You decide this yourself, correct?”
GROUP
“Let me prepare a summary for your colleagues.”
MEET
“Could we include the team in a call?”
CHECK
“What does the team need?”
THANKS
“Thank you.”
Your first week
One small action a day. Each day is only a little bigger than the last.
DAY 1 Ask who decides
DAY 2 Ask who uses it
DAY 3 Prepare a team summary
DAY 4 Offer a group demo
DAY 5 Address different concerns
DAY 6 Follow up with all
DAY 7 Review
Further reading
Influence (Robert Cialdini)
Pre-Suasion (Robert Cialdini)
Thinking, Fast and Slow (Daniel Kahneman)
The tips above are written in our own words and are general guidance. The books are suggestions for further reading.