LESSON 39 · WHY PEOPLE BUY

Buying for a Team vs Buying Alone

Practical ways to tell the difference between buying for a team and buying alone, and to adapt your approach.

Teams decide differently. Know who is in the room.

10 tipsEasy things to say7-day plan

10 tips that really help

These ideas come from Influence (Robert Cialdini), Pre-Suasion (Robert Cialdini), Thinking, Fast and Slow (Daniel Kahneman), and everyday practice. The first six help the most. Pick one and try it today.

Photo for the tip: Teams decide differently from individuals
TIP 1

Teams decide differently from individuals

Group buying involves more voices, more checks and a slower process.

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Understand the roles.
Photo for the tip: Identify all stakeholders
TIP 2

Identify all stakeholders

Learn who influences, approves and uses the product.

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Ask for names.
Photo for the tip: Address each person's needs
TIP 3

Address each person's needs

Different roles care about cost, ease, risk or results.

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Prepare separate briefs.
Photo for the tip: Support your champion
TIP 4

Support your champion

Give them materials they can share internally.

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Help them present.
Photo for the tip: Allow time for consensus
TIP 5

Allow time for consensus

Do not rush a group, since agreement takes longer.

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Plan a longer cycle.
Photo for the tip: Offer a group presentation
TIP 6

Offer a group presentation

Meeting everyone together saves repeating yourself.

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Schedule it.
Photo for the tip: Handle conflict calmly
TIP 7

Handle conflict calmly

If views differ, stay neutral and help find common ground.

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Listen to all sides.
Photo for the tip: For solo buyers, be direct
TIP 8

For solo buyers, be direct

Individuals can decide quickly and appreciate efficiency.

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Adapt your style.
Photo for the tip: Clarify who signs
TIP 9

Clarify who signs

Know the final authority to avoid delay.

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Confirm early.
Photo for the tip: Keep a record of who said what
TIP 10

Keep a record of who said what

Notes on each person’s concerns help later.

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Update after each meeting.

Easy things to say

When you are stuck, pick one of these. They work in many sales conversations.

TEAM

“Who else will use this?”

ALONE

“You decide this yourself, correct?”

GROUP

“Let me prepare a summary for your colleagues.”

MEET

“Could we include the team in a call?”

CHECK

“What does the team need?”

THANKS

“Thank you.”

Your first week

One small action a day. Each day is only a little bigger than the last.

DAY 1
Ask who decides
DAY 2
Ask who uses it
DAY 3
Prepare a team summary
DAY 4
Offer a group demo
DAY 5
Address different concerns
DAY 6
Follow up with all
DAY 7
Review

Further reading

  • Influence (Robert Cialdini)
  • Pre-Suasion (Robert Cialdini)
  • Thinking, Fast and Slow (Daniel Kahneman)

The tips above are written in our own words and are general guidance. The books are suggestions for further reading.

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