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LESSON 08 · GROWING YOUR CAREER

Ask for a Promotion

Eighteen easy tips to ask for a promotion, so you move up with clear proof and kind confidence.

Show readiness. Ask clearly.

24 tipsEasy things to say7-day plan

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24 tips that really help

These ideas come from So Good They Can’t Ignore You (Cal Newport), Getting to Yes (Roger Fisher and William Ury), Mindset (Carol Dweck), and everyday practice. Pick one tip and try it today.

TIP 1

Why ask

People rarely get promoted just by waiting. A clear, kind request puts you on the list.

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Ask soon.

TIP 2

Name the role you want

Say, I would like to grow into the senior designer role. Clear goals help.

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Name it.

TIP 3

Show you already act at that level

List tasks you do beyond your title. Proof helps.

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List them.

TIP 4

Ask what is needed

Ask your manager, what would I need to show? Clear steps help.

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Ask kindly.

TIP 5

Close small gaps

Work on skills they mention. Progress shows commitment.

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Learn them.

TIP 6

Get a sponsor to speak for you

A senior person who backs you helps. Ask for support.

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Ask a sponsor.

TIP 7

Set a review date

Agree on a time to review. Dates keep things moving.

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Set a date.

TIP 8

Keep delivering

Keep up good work while you wait. Consistency convinces.

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Keep going.

TIP 9

Script: goal

I would love to grow into a team lead role in the next year. Say it warmly.

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Use it.

TIP 10

Script: ask

What would I need to show to be ready for that step? Say it politely.

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Use it.

TIP 11

Script: date

Could we review my progress in three months? Say it kindly.

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Use it.

TIP 12

Mistake: comparing yourself with others

It stirs envy, so focus on you.

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Focus.

TIP 13

Troubleshoot: when they say not yet

Ask for clear steps and a date to review. Stay positive.

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Ask for steps.

TIP 14

Troubleshoot: when there is no role open

Ask about growth plans and what skills help you prepare. Plan ahead.

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Ask about plans.

TIP 15

Drill: write your promotion case

Write one page with your goal, proof and gaps.

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Write it.

TIP 16

Drill: book a career chat

Book a chat with your manager about growth.

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Book it.

TIP 17

Ask your manager what the next level needs

Get the list in writing if you can.

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Ask for the list.

TIP 18

Example: the written plan

Lina asked for a one-page plan. Six months later she was promoted.

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Ask for a plan.

TIP 19

Example: the proof file

Tom brought a short file of results. The promotion panel liked it.

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Make a file.

TIP 20

Troubleshoot: when you are told wait

Ask for the next step and a date.

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Ask a date.

TIP 21

Learn what skills the next level really needs

Ask a person in that role what matters most, because job titles hide the real day-to-day demands.

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Ask someone.

TIP 22

Find a project that shows next-level skills

Choosing a task that shows leadership or planning gives you proof before you even ask for the title.

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Find one.

TIP 23

Ask your manager to review your plan every quarter

A regular review keeps your goal alive and shows that you take growth seriously and calmly.

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Book a review.

TIP 24

Collect two or three kind notes from colleagues

Short notes from people you have helped are powerful proof that you are ready for more responsibility.

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Ask for two.

Easy things to say

When you are stuck, pick one of these. They work in many networking and career moments.

GOAL

“I would like to grow into this role.”

PROOF

“Here is what I have done.”

GAP

“What skills should I build?”

PLAN

“Let us set a plan together.”

TIME

“When could we review?”

CLOSE

“Thank you for your support.”

Your first week

One small action a day. Each day is only a little bigger than the last.

DAY 1
Name the role

DAY 2
List your proof

DAY 3
Ask what is needed

DAY 4
Close gaps

DAY 5
Ask for a review date

DAY 6
Ask clearly

DAY 7
Follow up

Further reading

• So Good They Can’t Ignore You (Cal Newport)
• Getting to Yes (Roger Fisher and William Ury)
• Mindset (Carol Dweck)

The tips above are written in our own words and are general guidance. The books are suggestions for further reading.

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