LESSON 36 · HEAR WHAT THEY REALLY MEAN

Record and Review a Call

Practical ways to record and review a call, so you hear yourself as customers do and improve fast.

Recording is the fastest coach. Listen with kindness.

10 tipsEasy things to say7-day plan

10 tips that really help

These ideas come from Never Split the Difference (Chris Voss), You’re Not Listening (Kate Murphy), The Lost Art of Listening (Michael Nichols), and everyday practice. The first six help the most. Pick one and try it today.

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TIP 1

Recordings reveal habits

Listening to yourself shows how you really sound, which often differs from what you imagine.

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Review one call this week.
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TIP 2

Always get permission

Tell the customer you are recording and why, and follow the rules in your area.

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Be transparent.
Photo for the tip: Check your talk-to-listen ratio
TIP 3

Check your talk-to-listen ratio

Time how long you speak compared with the customer, and aim for more listening.

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Use a stopwatch.
Photo for the tip: Mark every interruption
TIP 4

Mark every interruption

Noting the moments you cut in shows exactly where to practise patience.

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Count them.
Photo for the tip: Listen to your tone
TIP 5

Listen to your tone

Ask whether you sound warm, calm and interested, or rushed and flat.

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Compare with a good call.
Photo for the tip: Highlight your best questions
TIP 6

Highlight your best questions

Spotting the questions that opened people up helps you repeat them.

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Save the top three.
Photo for the tip: Find the signals you missed
TIP 7

Find the signals you missed

Replaying a call often reveals buying signals or worries you did not follow up.

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Write what you would ask now.
Photo for the tip: Pick one improvement at a time
TIP 8

Pick one improvement at a time

Trying to fix everything at once leads to frustration, so choose a single focus.

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Work on it for a week.
Photo for the tip: Share clips with a coach
TIP 9

Share clips with a coach

A trusted second pair of ears can notice what you cannot.

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Ask for two tips.
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TIP 10

Protect the recordings

Store them securely and delete them when no longer needed.

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Follow your privacy rules.

Easy things to say

When you are stuck, pick one of these. They work in many sales conversations.

PERMISSION

“Do you mind if I record this for training?”

HONEST

“I record calls to improve how I serve you.”

REVIEW

“I listened back and noticed…”

LEARN

“Next time I will ask more questions.”

THANKS

“Thank you for letting me record.”

SHARE

“I shared a lesson with the team.”

Your first week

One small action a day. Each day is only a little bigger than the last.

DAY 1
Check the rules in your area
DAY 2
Ask permission
DAY 3
Record one call
DAY 4
Listen once with notes
DAY 5
Mark three strengths
DAY 6
Mark one improvement
DAY 7
Repeat weekly

Further reading

  • Never Split the Difference (Chris Voss)
  • You’re Not Listening (Kate Murphy)
  • The Lost Art of Listening (Michael Nichols)

The tips above are written in our own words and are general guidance. The books are suggestions for further reading.

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