These ideas come from The Quick and Easy Way to Effective Speaking (Dale Carnegie), Talk Like TED (Carmine Gallo), Made to Stick (Chip and Dan Heath), and everyday practice. Pick one tip and try it today.
TIP 1
End with one clear thing
After a good talk or conversation, people remember very little. If you tell them the one thing to take away, they are far more likely to keep it.
TRY THIS Write your one takeaway in a single sentence before you write the rest.
TIP 2
The last words linger
Daniel Kahneman’s peak-end research suggests that people remember the high point and the ending of an experience most strongly. A clear closing sentence shapes how your whole message is remembered.
TRY THIS Spend extra time on your final sentence.
TIP 3
Say "If you remember one thing"
This phrase tells people to listen up. “If you remember one thing, remember this” focuses attention.
TRY THIS Use it before your closing line.
TIP 4
Keep it short
A takeaway of ten words or fewer is easiest to recall. “Start small, start today.”
TRY THIS Cut your takeaway to ten words.
TIP 5
Make it a sentence people can repeat
Short, rhythmic sentences get repeated. “Slow down, breathe, begin.”
TRY THIS Craft a memorable line.
TIP 6
Make it a call to action
End with something people can do: “Try it this week.” Action makes a message useful.
TRY THIS Add a clear next step.
TIP 7
Make it specific
“Be more confident” is vague. “Say hello to one new person this week” is clear.
TRY THIS Replace a vague takeaway with a specific one.
TIP 8
Make it positive
Say what to do, not what to avoid. People remember positive instructions better.
TRY THIS Rewrite negative advice as a positive one.
TIP 9
Make it doable
A tiny step beats a big goal. “Take one breath before you speak.”
TRY THIS Choose a small action.
TIP 10
Make it personal
Link to the listener: “You can do this.” Personal endings feel warm.
TRY THIS Address them as “you”.
TIP 11
Repeat it
Say your takeaway at the start and at the end. Repetition builds memory.
TRY THIS Repeat it twice.
TIP 12
Pause before it
A short pause before your last line signals importance.
TRY THIS Pause for two seconds.
TIP 13
Slow down
Say your last sentence slowly and clearly. Let it land.
TRY THIS Slow down for your close.
TIP 14
Lower your voice
A calm, lower tone gives weight and finality.
TRY THIS Finish on a settled note.
TIP 15
Look at the audience
End with eye contact. Do not look at notes.
TRY THIS Memorise your last line.
TIP 16
Do not trail off
Avoid “so… yeah.” Finish firmly. A clear stop shows confidence.
TRY THIS End with a full stop.
TIP 17
Do not add new ideas
Do not introduce new points at the end. Close the loop.
TRY THIS Cut late additions.
TIP 18
Do not apologise at the end
Avoid “Sorry, that was long.” Close with confidence.
TRY THIS End with thanks instead.
TIP 19
Say thank you
A sincere thank you is a classic ending. Keep it short.
TRY THIS Finish with “Thank you.”
TIP 20
Use a story ending
Return to your opening story with a final line. Loops satisfy.
TRY THIS Link to your story.
TIP 21
Use a question ending
End with a question that makes them think. “What will you try first?”
TRY THIS Choose a reflective question.
TIP 22
Use a quote
A short, apt quote can close well. Ensure it fits and is accurate.
TRY THIS Choose one line.
TIP 23
Use humour
A light closing line can leave people smiling. Keep it kind.
TRY THIS Prepare a witty last line.
TIP 24
Use a call to join
“Let us do this together.” Inclusive endings build unity.
TRY THIS Use “we”.
TIP 25
Use the rule of three
“Plan it, practise it, perform it.” A triplet gives rhythm.
TRY THIS Create a three-beat close.
TIP 26
Summarise
Quickly review your main points before the takeaway. One sentence each.
TRY THIS Recap in three sentences.
TIP 27
Link to the start
Echo your opening idea for a neat structure. People like symmetry.
TRY THIS Mirror your first line.
TIP 28
Practise your ending
Rehearse the last minute most. A smooth ending builds confidence.
TRY THIS Say it five times.
TIP 29
Prepare for questions
Plan to take questions before your final words, then finish with your takeaway. This way, the last word is yours.
TRY THIS Plan the order.
TIP 30
End meetings with actions
“We decided X, Sam will do Y by Friday.” Clear closes prevent confusion.
TRY THIS Summarise decisions.
TIP 31
End emails clearly
State the next step and thank them. A clear last line prompts action.
TRY THIS Add a final request.
TIP 32
End calls with a recap
“So I will send the file tomorrow.” Short recaps avoid mistakes.
TRY THIS Recap your promise.
TIP 33
End conversations warmly
A warm closing line leaves goodwill. “It was lovely to chat.”
TRY THIS Close kindly.
TIP 34
End feedback with encouragement
Close with something positive. “I believe you can do it.”
TRY THIS Add a hopeful line.
TIP 35
End speeches with gratitude
Thank people sincerely. Gratitude leaves a good feeling.
TRY THIS Thank specific people.
TIP 36
End with a gesture
A small gesture, such as opening your hands, can mark the end.
TRY THIS Choose a closing gesture.
TIP 37
Hold the silence
After your last line, pause and smile before moving. Let it settle.
TRY THIS Count to three.
TIP 38
Check recall
Ask someone afterwards what they remember. If it is your takeaway, you have succeeded.
TRY THIS Ask a friend.
TIP 39
Celebrate a clean finish
A crisp ending feels great. Enjoy it.
TRY THIS Say, “That landed.”
TIP 40
Test your takeaway on a stranger
Say your takeaway to someone who has not heard your talk. If they can say it back in their own words, it is clear enough.
TRY THIS Ask a friend to repeat your takeaway in their own words.
Easy things to say
When you are stuck, pick one of these. They work in many everyday situations.
TAKEAWAY
“If you remember one thing, remember this.â€
ACTION
“The next step is to book a time.â€
REPEAT
“Let me say that once more.â€
THANK
“Thank you for listening.â€
INVITE
“Now I would love your thoughts.â€
CLOSE
“That is the heart of it.â€
Your first week
One small action a day. Each day is only a little bigger than the last.
DAY 1 Find the one thing
DAY 2 Write it in one line
DAY 3 Say it clearly
DAY 4 Pause
DAY 5 Repeat it
DAY 6 Invite action
DAY 7 Stop
Further reading
The Quick and Easy Way to Effective Speaking (Dale Carnegie)
Talk Like TED (Carmine Gallo)
Made to Stick (Chip and Dan Heath)
The tips above are written in our own words and are general guidance. The books are suggestions for further reading.