LESSON 40 · STOPPING OVERTHINKING

Be Here Now: Simple Mindfulness

Thirty-two easy ways to be here now, with simple mindfulness anyone can do in a busy day.

Now is the only place life happens. Come back to it often.

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40 tips that really help

These ideas come from Chatter (Ethan Kross), Don’t Believe Everything You Think (Joseph Nguyen), The Untethered Soul (Michael Singer), and everyday practice. Pick one tip and try it today.

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TIP 1

Now is the only place life happens

Overthinking lives in the past and future. Mindfulness brings attention back to what is happening now, without judgement. Programmes such as Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction, developed by Jon Kabat-Zinn, have been studied widely and show benefits for stress and rumination for many people.

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Spend one minute noticing only what you see, hear and feel right now.
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TIP 2

Start with the breath

Feel it at the nose or belly.

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Follow five breaths.
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TIP 3

Notice the body

Scan from head to toe.

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Scan.
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TIP 4

Notice sounds

Let them come.

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Listen.
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TIP 5

Notice sight

Look at one object closely.

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Observe.
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TIP 6

Notice touch

Feel your feet, hands.

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Feel.
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TIP 7

Notice taste

Eat one raisin slowly.

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Savour.
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TIP 8

Notice smell

Tea, soap, air.

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Inhale.
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TIP 9

Notice thoughts

Label “thinking”.

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Watch.
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TIP 10

Notice feelings

Name them.

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Say “sadness”.
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TIP 11

Return gently

When your mind wanders, return.

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Repeat.
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Be kind

No judgement.

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Smile.
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Practise daily

Five minutes.

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Set a time.
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Practise informally

Brush teeth mindfully.

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Do it.
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Practise while walking

Feel each step.

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Walk slowly.
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Practise while eating

Put down your fork between bites.

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Slow down.
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Practise while listening

Give full attention.

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Try.
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Practise while washing dishes

Feel the water.

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Try.
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Practise while waiting

Breathe.

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Use queues.
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Practise while showering

Feel water.

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Be present.
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TIP 21

Scene: morning

Three breaths before getting up.

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Try.
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Scene: commute

Notice surroundings.

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Look.
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Scene: work

One task at a time.

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Single-task.
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TIP 24

Scene: lunch

Eat without screens.

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Savour.
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Scene: evening

Notice your home.

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Pause.
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Scene: bedtime

Body scan.

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Scan.
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Scene: with family

Be fully there.

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Put the phone away.
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TIP 28

Scene: in conflict

Pause and feel your feet.

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Breathe.
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TIP 29

Scene: in pain

Observe sensations gently.

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Breathe.
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Scene: in joy

Savour it.

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Notice.
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TIP 31

Use apps or classes

Guided practice helps.

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Try one.
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TIP 32

Use a bell

Set a mindful reminder.

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Choose a sound.
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Use a cue

Every time you open a door, breathe.

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Pick one.
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TIP 34

Expect wandering

It’s normal.

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Return.
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Expect discomfort

Sometimes feelings rise.

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Be gentle.
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TIP 36

Check suitability

If you have trauma, seek guidance first.

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Talk to a professional.
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TIP 37

Be patient

Benefits build over weeks.

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Keep going.
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TIP 38

Seek help

For persistent anxiety, see a professional.

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Reach out.
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TIP 39

Celebrate

Each return to now is practice.

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Smile.
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TIP 40

Close with presence

Say, “Here. Now. Enough.”

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Write it.

Easy things to say

When you are stuck, pick one of these. They work in many everyday situations.

NOTICE

“I am here, in this moment.”

BREATHE

“I will take three slow breaths.”

FEEL

“I can feel my feet on the floor.”

LISTEN

“I can hear the sounds around me.”

THANK

“Thank you for this moment.”

CLOSE

“I feel present and calm.”

Your first week

One small action a day. Each day is only a little bigger than the last.

DAY 1
Pause
DAY 2
Breathe
DAY 3
Feel your feet
DAY 4
Notice what you see
DAY 5
Notice what you hear
DAY 6
Do one thing at a time
DAY 7
Return again

Further reading

  • Chatter (Ethan Kross)
  • Don’t Believe Everything You Think (Joseph Nguyen)
  • The Untethered Soul (Michael Singer)

The tips above are written in our own words and are general guidance. The books are suggestions for further reading.

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