These ideas come from Chatter (Ethan Kross), Don’t Believe Everything You Think (Joseph Nguyen), The Untethered Soul (Michael Singer), and everyday practice. Pick one tip and try it today.
TIP 1
Now is the only place life happens
Overthinking lives in the past and future. Mindfulness brings attention back to what is happening now, without judgement. Programmes such as Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction, developed by Jon Kabat-Zinn, have been studied widely and show benefits for stress and rumination for many people.
TRY THIS Spend one minute noticing only what you see, hear and feel right now.
TIP 2
Start with the breath
Feel it at the nose or belly.
TRY THIS Follow five breaths.
TIP 3
Notice the body
Scan from head to toe.
TRY THIS Scan.
TIP 4
Notice sounds
Let them come.
TRY THIS Listen.
TIP 5
Notice sight
Look at one object closely.
TRY THIS Observe.
TIP 6
Notice touch
Feel your feet, hands.
TRY THIS Feel.
TIP 7
Notice taste
Eat one raisin slowly.
TRY THIS Savour.
TIP 8
Notice smell
Tea, soap, air.
TRY THIS Inhale.
TIP 9
Notice thoughts
Label “thinking”.
TRY THIS Watch.
TIP 10
Notice feelings
Name them.
TRY THIS Say “sadness”.
TIP 11
Return gently
When your mind wanders, return.
TRY THIS Repeat.
TIP 12
Be kind
No judgement.
TRY THIS Smile.
TIP 13
Practise daily
Five minutes.
TRY THIS Set a time.
TIP 14
Practise informally
Brush teeth mindfully.
TRY THIS Do it.
TIP 15
Practise while walking
Feel each step.
TRY THIS Walk slowly.
TIP 16
Practise while eating
Put down your fork between bites.
TRY THIS Slow down.
TIP 17
Practise while listening
Give full attention.
TRY THIS Try.
TIP 18
Practise while washing dishes
Feel the water.
TRY THIS Try.
TIP 19
Practise while waiting
Breathe.
TRY THIS Use queues.
TIP 20
Practise while showering
Feel water.
TRY THIS Be present.
TIP 21
Scene: morning
Three breaths before getting up.
TRY THIS Try.
TIP 22
Scene: commute
Notice surroundings.
TRY THIS Look.
TIP 23
Scene: work
One task at a time.
TRY THIS Single-task.
TIP 24
Scene: lunch
Eat without screens.
TRY THIS Savour.
TIP 25
Scene: evening
Notice your home.
TRY THIS Pause.
TIP 26
Scene: bedtime
Body scan.
TRY THIS Scan.
TIP 27
Scene: with family
Be fully there.
TRY THIS Put the phone away.
TIP 28
Scene: in conflict
Pause and feel your feet.
TRY THIS Breathe.
TIP 29
Scene: in pain
Observe sensations gently.
TRY THIS Breathe.
TIP 30
Scene: in joy
Savour it.
TRY THIS Notice.
TIP 31
Use apps or classes
Guided practice helps.
TRY THIS Try one.
TIP 32
Use a bell
Set a mindful reminder.
TRY THIS Choose a sound.
TIP 33
Use a cue
Every time you open a door, breathe.
TRY THIS Pick one.
TIP 34
Expect wandering
It’s normal.
TRY THIS Return.
TIP 35
Expect discomfort
Sometimes feelings rise.
TRY THIS Be gentle.
TIP 36
Check suitability
If you have trauma, seek guidance first.
TRY THIS Talk to a professional.
TIP 37
Be patient
Benefits build over weeks.
TRY THIS Keep going.
TIP 38
Seek help
For persistent anxiety, see a professional.
TRY THIS Reach out.
TIP 39
Celebrate
Each return to now is practice.
TRY THIS Smile.
TIP 40
Close with presence
Say, “Here. Now. Enough.”
TRY THIS Write it.
Easy things to say
When you are stuck, pick one of these. They work in many everyday situations.
NOTICE
“I am here, in this moment.”
BREATHE
“I will take three slow breaths.”
FEEL
“I can feel my feet on the floor.”
LISTEN
“I can hear the sounds around me.”
THANK
“Thank you for this moment.”
CLOSE
“I feel present and calm.”
Your first week
One small action a day. Each day is only a little bigger than the last.
DAY 1 Pause
DAY 2 Breathe
DAY 3 Feel your feet
DAY 4 Notice what you see
DAY 5 Notice what you hear
DAY 6 Do one thing at a time
DAY 7 Return again
Further reading
Chatter (Ethan Kross)
Don’t Believe Everything You Think (Joseph Nguyen)
The Untethered Soul (Michael Singer)
The tips above are written in our own words and are general guidance. The books are suggestions for further reading.